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PostPosted: Fri May 16, 2014 7:19 pm 
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Ok guys. One of my friends has challenged me to a night session without drinking at all. Totall stone cold sobre.

Now I dont normally get drunk. I normally have a drink to loosen up.

However he seems to think I use drink as a crutch. WHich I dont believe I do.

So I have now took some of his comments as a challenge.

WHen it comes to hitting state, is it easier without the odd drink or is it harder.

I know that once I get a hook totally sobre, my inner game is going to rise that much. But Im just worried now that drink is a crutch.

Any tips for getting into state quickly.

PS Im also thinking about the money issue here. Spending less will mean more nights out on a regular basis.

PostPosted: Sat May 17, 2014 12:21 am 
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generally, just chat to people throughout the day. "warm up" throughout the day with everyone - they don't have to be hot, you just have to get into that mode where you're confident and comfortable talking to people.

What I would say, is that if you're sober, think about where and how you're going to approach. If you're not going to be comfortable dancing (and many people aren't when they're sober, either because they're self conscious or just because they're crap at dancing and/or don't really like it - I'm not a huge fan!) then think about other strategies. I don't smoke but spend ages in the smoking area. get chatting, if you smoke - ask someone for a light, if you don't smoke just chat or have a light on you so that you can offer it to people who haven't got one. otherwise think about talking to girls at the bar or whatever. Just don't be the creepy guy who stands at the side of the club tapping his foot, too self conscious to dance properly and ogling all the girls!

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