Thanks for the input man. I think that in order for me to not give a fuck, I have to keep practicing being social. These guides offer some ease of mind, but I think something like the 30 day challenge may desensitize me more.
I am a very attractive guy and woman have told me that over and over. Something that I have learned is to not use your looks as the excuse for why woman should sleep with you. Early on I thought that was a good enough reason and that my game didn't really matter. Which has caused a sort of confusion on why I wasn't getting laid. Looks can really only be a useful tool for noticing certain IOIs, like if you catch her staring. BAM. You can move in and straight up ask her if "she was trying to have a staring contest". In the end it can makes things easier for approaching and sometimes escalating. Start believing that nothing you say will effect you negatively, because it won't. Start acting your look, instead of just showing your look. If a girl doesn't like it then that's her problem, not yours. So obviously she sucks and can't handle her own emotions.