I was always a type of guy to end up in a friend zone, talking sexually with a girl put a rock in my stomach, and as much as my conscious mind understands that woman are sexual beings and want to get layed as much as we do my subconscious mind is just refusing to admit that fact, in essence i was so brainwashed by the feminist propaganda that i feel like fighting a windmill every time i need to get sexual with a girl. Not to say i cant do it but i feel it does not come off as natural and that is a huge DLV if i am right. So i just came up with an idea to use live chat(you know the one they keep spamming you with on porn sites) to deprogram my subconscious of this bad habit. i know it is not as good as field experience but i think that just talking sexually to a real woman and have her respond positively(instead of negatively as my subconscious mind keeps insisting will happen) can be at the very least a start, what do you think?
Terrible idea. Get out there and approach man.
Your brain NEEDS to feel the rejection. You don't need to deprogram your brain at all. You need to RE-program it. You will never forget the negatives unless you have more positives to outweigh them. The only way to do that is to go out and get those memories.