I finally got my inner self sorted out where i don't need women or looking for women to fill some hole in my character for me.
But i want a girlfriend, or even just a girl who's a friend. Girls are fun and honestly i light up around them. I would love to hang out with a girl on a Saturday or Friday night. Don't think its gonna happen anytime soon though.
Thats fine tho i'll spend these nights going out and just hitting on as many women as i can and have fun while doing it. My best aspect of me is im a good/ funny conversationalist.
- I hardly have enough courage to go in and stay in. I just don't approach. I always stay away from groups with a guy. WHY? he can't be banging all of them. I see two girls talking alone. I think ahh they just don't want to be bothered. BUT there at a bar.
Its weird because if i look back i have actually a good amount of interactions with women. I get laughter out of them easily. I think i really found out how to win a girls trust when meeting her. I just can't progress it sexually. I'm a virgin which explains alot i'm sure. I really feel unqualified for girls. I shouldn't though.
I want to get this sorted out and be having fun with girls, shit i'm 23 it's about time. I'm really dedicated to turning this around.
Someone tell me why i shouldn't feel inadequate around girls. help me bring myself to somewhere better.
I have a similar problem to yours; I used to be able to progress things sexually earlier on when I was still chodey (but had little experience getting laid). Now that I am familiar with the process of bringing girls back my unconscious is basically saying "I'm good enough now compared to most men", and so I find myself paralysed to take things further because my ego is trying to protect me from potential harm (which is btw, IRRATIONAL).
The virginity problem will sort itself out. I know mine did, now I'm actually pretty good in bed! Even with the shitty ego problems holding me back, I'm still able to bang an average amount of girls (7 in 1 year + 2 months of pickup, if you need a statistic).
Whenever you feel a rationalisation, that's your cue to DEFY IT and PUSH THROUGH! Otherwise you're wasting your time in field.
It's good to have a wingman for the harder sets. My new wingman forces me into sets, and if we're not escalating hard enough we pinch each other really hard
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