Best Way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (Short Version)



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 09, 2013 10:02 pm 
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The best way to overcome being afraid to approach girls is to just be the friendliest guy in the room. This means you have to be friendly to everyone and then girls will naturally be more interested in you.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 09, 2013 10:22 pm 
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The best way is to just keep approaching till you're comfortable with it. It's no big deal.


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Internalize some mindsets. That no one gives a shit what you're doing. That what she thinks doesn't matter, only you and your perception of yourself is what matters.
Do something that makes you uncomfortable every day. Sing in public, talk to a stranger on the bus. Whatever you normally wouldn't do.

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doesn't this make you a AFC?


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Evryone knows the awkward or anxiety feeling right? Now tell yourself that feeling is actualy a very good feeling to have. And link this feeling with joy, greatness, and awesomeness. So the next time you get that feeling you say to yourself "Hmmmmmmm this feeling is good! Lets GO!".

When you do this its also easier to keep a calm feeling with it and you will be able to talk on a normal tone without much stuttering or other strange sounds. 8)

I mean the feeling never changed in my years of aproaching girls, only the way i interpret the feeling has changed.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 30, 2013 3:26 am 
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Think of how you will feel after she walks away and you DIDN'T approach her.


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 07, 2013 7:56 pm 
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Yeah I like that. Set up a habit of talking to everyone every chance you get, when you're in line at the store or at the mall, just say some casual observation to whoever you're next to.

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Collection of Confidence from Hypnotica destroyed my approach anxiety for good.

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