I've always considered myself to be a pretty funny, confident and in most aspects of life pretty easy going not caring type of guy whos confident in his own looks (not to toot my own horn or anything). I don't have a problem with approaching girls and getting them to the attraction stage and where i know they dig me, but i always fall apart when trying to take it to the next level kiss close/get sexual.
I don't have much sexual experience at all so i think it's a feeling of inadequacy or not being able to perform that's holding me back and basically if the guy doesn't incinuate the next step its not happening, very rare for the girl to do it. So i ALWAYS get stuck in this flirty stage where i get nothing from it and in the end we both get bored she goes and finds some other guy. Basically this is happening all my life and i need to turn it around, i know i should "grow a set" and just do it but does anyone have any tips to overcome this?

well dont look at it as overcoming not being sexual..... look at it more of becoming a sexual person it, elimanates the barrier of you being afraid to be sexual... another thing that helps is kino escalation.. once you start touching... well if you do it right almost 90% of the time its a good chance youl get laid or at least kiss makeout ect.., heres a link to the kino escalation ladder its great material if you havnt yet gotten to read it heres the link http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Esc ... lo.com.pdf

as far as any other problems at all in pickup and such id highly recomend a podcast its on itunes and has its own website its called ajandjordantalkchicks heres the website ajandjordantalkchicks.com its fuull of useful content and applies to pickup and a wide range of things that help from body language to banter (playful flirting)

any other questions let me know and il help you best i can

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