If i didnt do it, id be getting erections on buses and sh*t

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Its crazy how everyone has different hang ups. Porn has been there for me when i wanted. There is never a replacement for the real deal of course.

Almost all the woman i have ever been with will agree (if they knew)...
Porn made me a better lover! How can u fuck like a pornstar if you dont know how they fuck... even better is recognising a pornstar in traffic court and gaming her all the while not letting her know that you know who she is and what she does... AHHH GREAT MEMORIES

But to each there own!!! I completely agree that if porn affects YOU in a negative manner and it works for you to quit.. then do it.. if not... then DO IT... PORN can be a great instructional device if used properly... you can learn any position you could ever need... spark the creativity to make up some new ones... work on your endurance, learn to hold that load till the cows come home... seriously i have learned some amazing skills from porn.

Can it be a waste of time? YES
Can you abuse it? YES
Will it change your outlook on woman? Maybe if you already have those tendencies... Be yourself and dont be influenced by others!
Can it be used safely? YES

Anyway enough with my rant.. LOL

btw i over use ellipses "..." haha

masterbating everyday = bad

masterbating once in month = bad


i suggest go for once in week (like mystery), for the starters, you shud go twice in week, then try to BAM your load once in week.

Sperms shud be GTFO from our body, like every secretory, thats why once in week shud be good


at least for me!

I don't think the issue is in quantity, it is in quality.

Masturbating to porn causes us to gradually become desensitized to sexual images, which forces us to turn to more and more hardcore material in order to get off. This can hurt your performance in bed by making it more difficult for females to satisfy you and it can weaken your desire.

Masturbating to your imagination has the opposite effect; it strengthens the male desire and makes you more sensitive to sexual images.

If you only masturbate to your imagination, then when you have sex you will be more into it.

Yeah, SAME.

Whenever I have sex now, I go for HOURS upon HOURS and it's not that satisfying.

To me, sex isn't that great, it's knowing I just had sex that keeps me doing it.

Knowing women desire me.

Anti-depression in a sense.

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After reading The Game, I thought I would try Mystery's recommendation to not masturbate. So I went a few weeks without masturbating to see how it would affect my game.

It had no effect on my game, good or bad.

Two years later, I was a lot better at game and thought I would give it another shot. I was hoping I would be able to create a strong sexual vibe.

It still had no effect on my game, good or bad.

A lot of bla bla bla bla bla bla. Watching porn and masturbating doesn't have to be related with seeing women as your slave. I do agree that you don't have to masturbate 3 times a day like a crack junky. That will kill your game because you won't feel any drive to go get a real girl. That is the only reason why you shouldn't overdo it. Those who think women are slaves should get help some mental help somewhere.

im going to be honest the same thing happened with me when you go from jerking off to geting chooie ya got so use to your hands tightness(no homo lol)that pussy is like jerking off but opening ya hand and having a loose grip so it does not feel that good but with my ex it was great only cuz i did not use a condom and it was nice and tight and wet. trust me when you get some good pussy ya gonna have to make up plans not to bust to quick so ya not labeled the min man lol

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lol plus i wanted to add maybe there is truth to this or a big topic never talked about because they had a sinfield show when george stoped having sex and he became active looking about different things and eliene became dumb ass hell and slow so i think this affect female too

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Wow.. Thanks for this post. I always assumed this but i've never really put it to the test. But I have noticed that I have alot more energy and im alot more active when i dont do it. I love you man. (no homo) and starting today i'm changing my life. Yesterday was the last time i had a solo performance and i'm setting a goal for 30 days. Wish me luck.

I'd say its good because if you DONT jack off, and if you get someone, you're probably gonna come before she does which isn't good.

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1. The mechanics biologically of getting laid and masturbating are entirely the same, that feeling you have after wards is the same after-glow after sex. You do not lose testosterone or "energy".

2. You feel women are de-valued by porn, that's YOUR problem, you create your own perceptions. Plenty of people who have masturbated and used porn that do not see women as objects or slaves.

For that matter no one ever says that women who watch to much porn will think of men as "objects"

3. It's all about your framing, if you are a very sexual person then masturbating may be the only way you can get your fix, on top of that the drugs released thank to masturbating will INCREASE your sex drive. The more your system is exposed to chemicals the more it desires and craves them.

Saying watching porn and masturbating reduces your desire to get laid is like saying smoking reduces your want to smoke cigarettes.

This is so true! Great post.

For me, not masturbating will lower my sex drive and I feel like shit. Besides... toching yourself, is good for your health

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