I get laid regularly so i know this has a back lash. One week or more of not getting laid or even not masturbating is going to atrophy and weaken your pc muscles and your ejaculation will not feel as intense or you will not last as long when you do get laid.

I suggest if you do this no masturbation thing, you should do kegel exercises every 3 days so you dont suck in the bedroom. It would be sad if you spend so much time and effort to get laid only to have your fuck sessions last as long as it takes you to say your opener.

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This post confirmed some things for me. I borrowed a stack of porn dvd's from a good friend of mine after I stopped seeing a link I was active for 3 months. So in reality after I stopped seeing her I got very bored, and realised I was literally gagging that shit. I missed a couple of girls on the road and I talked to one nice girl but got refused (don't you just hate it when a girl eyes you up, you go talk to them and bang, the force field is on when its obvious you are talking to them to get a number). Recently after 2 weeks which is now, I watched some porn I did it and now I just feel like i'm losing that purpose, cos it feels like its taking away the purpose of my needs. You guys who have porn in a good light, that's cool I rate you 100%, for those who are rising to get back up you might need to take this in the rethink box and look at all those other people, saying in this post to keep your energy up. Cos I think if you do that then the energy that you still have will be useful to your game in terms of originality and a confident mind. I'm not working at the moment either but it hasn't been that long but I can surely use that as a factor, and I'm temping at a Hospital in London so there are tons of nice ones in there, so I can use that as a factor for not really being actively social everyday either inside or outside work cos I'll always be out doing things and it won't matter if your sorting your self out becos your only focusing on you and your game would be sky smashing. But right now I think watching porn on this level will kill any purpose of it cos all you will be thinking about when talking to a girl is "Ooh.. *eyes unfocused lack of energy* ..She's hot, imagine what she would look like f**king her from behind." and you won't be able to communicate in trying to get what you really need. I'm not actively out and about however most days I am out of the house so that's all I have. Girls are human beings like you and me, you just got to know how to deal with them, but that will kill the purpose of what I was saying. So I'm gonna leave that to the experts on this forum of after gaming. I still my self is learning, my game is not all that tight but I still try even if I don't get what I want. And to tell you the truth I do miss the sex more but I bet that's how we all feel at some points in time you just got to admit it, than you won't start doubting your self either, if you know girls can have a good time with you like before you can definitely do it again.

For Lent this year I actually decided to stop jerking altogether.

And Holy Shit, what a difference.

I didn't make the whole period (only 35 days, which was still brilliant) but within a couple of weeks the change I felt was incredible. I felt amazing, far more confident in everything I did. Within a week I felt really horny, but that soon balanced out.

Seriously though, my only concern was waking up to find I'd blown a load during my sleep - which never happened.

However, once the habit returned, I found my mental state and outlook declined over a couple of months, to a pretty bad spot.

I think it really depends on the person - there's a wide spectrum in the replies here. Again, it's a debate with no real definitive answer.

masterbation prevents/lowers prostate cancer

This is the dumbest thread I've seen on here. Porn does not change your attitude of women, at most masterbation lowers your testosterone. Even that shouldn't be an issue to your game.
As a matter of fact, twice weekly masterbation is healthy.

You people sound like a bunch of sexually repressed whatevers...

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OK,
I will try not to masturbate for 2 weeks. I really did not notice anything negative with viewing porn or masturbating but I just want to see if it will have any effect at all. I would agree that porn should be the dessert, not the entree. I would also put forward the theory that "You are what you think you are" and that these thoughts radiate subconsciously to others. So radiate good vibes only. I do not agree that it will make you a loser or addicted but each of us has a different personality and it affects each case different. So fill your mind with the good stuff, always. Load your mind up with the techniques, strategies, and knowledge..........you get the idea.
"When you empty your purse into your mind, your mind will always fill your purse with gold"- Ben Franklin.

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My attitude about it is that my reward for good game should be good sex. The better I get at the game the more loads I get to bust. It gives you good motivation and I have noticed increased energy in general.

Also I remember reading an article about how not ejaculating increases testosterone in the body which will increase your natural pheremones and if you work out increases your bodys ability to build muscle. When you ejaculate your body releases dopamine which is a narcotic and is very addictive. Now think about it if you sit in your house instead of going out and you bust your load day after day, your body will get addicted to not going out. But instead if you go out and get with a chick and then bust a load you will be even more enthusiastic about going out and gaming girls because your body will want to experience that same addictive feeling again.

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Lots of girls watch porn... I think you can find lots of porn which are respectful towrds women. You can also wtch lesbian porn. In addition masturbation can help you being better in bed. Try to focus on your breathing when you masturbate and try to unleash you sexual energy thought your body. When I masturbate, I often feel lots of energy running thought my legs and tigeling in my foot, if the energy is diffused in your body you the pleasure you´ll have from coming can be tenfold. There is something i do which is more powerfull than porn: WRITING PORN, you just let you imagination go and describe sexual fantasies, this can get you crazy horny and defenetly put you in the right mindset to give the best game.
Cheers, JB

u dont feel the need to go out anymore..

First off, masturabtion and results from women is a correlation, not causation. Porn does not cause guys to have bad attitudes or help them objectify women, you can not prove that. You can relate to it, by doing statistics and showing the relationship but to show that it cause it? You can't because there are different guys with different mindsets or personalities which affect their game.

With that, I don't think there is anything wrong with porn and masturbation. This is human sexuality, the term masturbation wouldn't exist if no one did this right? This is natural and I don't think anyone should be ashamed or embarrassed about masturbating. The only reason why it may be look down upon is because of socialization. You're not going to be Dr. Jekyll when you masturbate and then turn to Mr. Hyde after you've ejaculated. Your views of women won't change unless you allow it to change. Your stamina would change yes, because your body goes through a hormonal process which releases oxytocin, endorphins, and other fluids but believing that girls are objects and all of that after you masturbate? I think that's total bullshit. I find masturbating a lot really helps me because now that I don't feel the drive to have sex as much, when I do talk to a girl I don't even think about sex, I just think about being in the moment with her and see where it leads me. But then again this is me and my beliefs, I stand firm to what I think and believe in, and a jerk off session is not going to change a thing. Sex is good, masturbation is good, it's natural, it's fun, enjoy it. After you're done, move on and do something else or go sleep or some shit. Just have fun and don't think too much about this. Take care guys


- Nelson

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"In order to fill your cup, you must first empty your cup" - Bruce Lee

"Becoming great with women is a by product of becoming great yourself" - Cory Skyy

Here is something to think about:
In the book "Think and Grow Rich", Napoleon Hill has a chapter on "The Mystery of Sex Transmutation" Basically he says that "........saving up your sexual energy and not burning it all up on sex" helps you in the long run.
Try an experiment: Save yourself up for a couple of days. But expose yourself to the stimulation of sex. Get yourself into a "white heat" of horniness. Then go out. Women will be more attracted to you because they sense the "sex" on you. I have tried it and it works very well.
Here's the other opinion about porn:
I feel that it's OK in small doses but if your mind converts your thoughts into physical reality then being a porn addict will communicate "creepiness" to women and they will pick up on this as well. You can disagree but women have that "radar" up at all times and can sense certain things like worthiness, character, etc. Please try this and post the results here. But don't hold it in for too long..............the guys that didn't shit or pee for a week.......well........they died! LOL

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i totally agree with this ... building up sexual energy will allow to follow your life purpose and motivations with greater conviction

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I def have an issue with porn, my problem is the actual addiction to porn as well as frequency.

Ive been a virgin up till my early 20's few years ago, I was hooked on porn for all those years since I guess right before highschool.

I notice that it makes me lazy when it comes to going out and picking up women, I notice more energy when I dont do porn as well.

Another problem is that I am used to that one position because of porn, and now that I started having sex I can never ejaculate unless I am in that position/using my grip..no pun intended haha

It came to a point where I would have sex and then get in that position to finish with girl blowing me and I still couldnt get off...I guess from missing the porn aspect of it, that is def a problem

It's one of those things that can be a tool or an addiction, depending on the user. Much like alcohol and drugs. These things can make you a better or worse PUA (or person). It just depends on how extreme you take it.

And BTW, you don't throat-fuck girls? Part of my way of dealing with LMR is during a heated make out session is to tell the girls I like rough sex, then you can usually do WHATEVER you want with them. Just sayin'.

Glade

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Hi all,

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