It's like its the hardest thing in the world go date a slightly younger attractive women.
I know the cure for this.
You have to be what you want to attract. As a 40 year old male, I know I have to take care of myself to have a chance with the 20-somethings I date (this is my rule, I don't date anyone older). With this in mind, I practice a fairly strict fitness regiment, of less than 60 carbs a day, and two hours in the gym every other day. I cheat once a week on this.
I have an amazing 21 year old gf I've been exclusive with for a year now. I have two 20-something 9/10 bartenders on "backup" who text me to fuck. My gf will bring home other girls on occasion that I get to fuck with her
. I am not rich. But I do know how to treat women. And that is charming honesty. This, combined with fitness really seems to drive women nuts.
I live like a king. I don't let small things get to me. I don't focus on material items. I focus on my career, the *living* things that matter to me, fitness, and sex.
It sounds like you don't need the "hottest" woman right now, but just a woman. I've talked to a bunch of really attractive women over the years. They will tell stories about how they can smell it on a guy if he hasn't been laid in forever. This is not a joke.
It sounds like you need practice, and you may be punching out of your weight class right now. Find a nice 6, and fuck her a lot. Practice emotional control, practice your bedroom skills. You may not love this woman, or be all that blown away, but the EXPERIENCE, and the knowledge that you make her orgasm will be picked up on by hotter women. Then you work your way up. And when you work your way up, you begin KEEPING women. And you keep them until you're tired of them. And you keep doing this until you're so good in bed that a 9 or 10 simply can't walk away from you, and become obsessed with you. Then MORE women pick up on this, and your phone is blowing up, and YOU get to decide who gets to stay and who gets the door in your life. This is abundance mentality.
Every hot woman has this. 99% of men do not. And women go fucking crazy when a guy has it, because finally, they have found someone who has the options and prowess they do, and it turns them on badly.
I currently living a bit of a small town in the UK perhaps I will move to London soon..
Small towns are easy. Usually, most of the attractive women have boyfriends. If you are FIT enough, and charming enough, they will want you.