hello so there's this girl whom a few months back asked for my help, since she was casted out from her parents, she is an old friend of mine back in school but back then i didn't really insight interest in her nor really close.

when she was casted out i was with her all the way, infract the story was at the time i was also casted out, so we were two homeless kids in the streets, we slept through friend after friend, until i got a good paying job and a house then we moved in together for at lease another month.

at some point i decided to contact her parents, first the her mom, the person who casted her out, but she wouldn't take her in. ( by the way i did this in secret ).

then i contacted her dad and grandparents, luckily they were nice enough to talk about it and that she was invited back to her house.

although i was alone at this point she still hangs out with me almost everyday. keeps me company and cooks for me etc. i developed a likeness towards her at this point, but she said that we were only friends ( FRIENDZONED!! ),

though i accepted it quite quickly, i could not help but think i still like her alot now as i spend each day with her. one night we went clubbing and there were alot of guys going after her number and her panties, and i have to overpower all of them, thanks to experience and a couple of friends i was able to. she felt like it of course and hated me for it, however i told her why and i started to cry because of the big burden she has bestowed upon me, and she started to cry and held my hand and whispered " ok i can see you now " what happened after that is on another story ;D

now that thats out of the way, i started courting her for a month, she is very difficult very traditional she wouldnt call me her BF if i dont prove myself to her, though there has been sexual contact she wouldnt call me her BF ( from what weve been through i thought it would be important ) and at this point there are other guys courting her too. so i was on a list now, which annoyed me alot.

one night there was this guy whom she met on that club, he invited us to another club that night, and to be fair the guy did look very clean and educated and trustworthy, but this dosent mean i trust him at all. its already 1:30am and on the club there was no one dancing on the general floor, but is already partying on the VIP, so i thought the club sucked!, the guy said that its normal.

also at this point she began to cling and cuddle to the guy!, which also frustrates me, because she has done this to 3 other guys and my friends but has never done it to me!. so not allowing myself to be but hurt, i just unleashed myself and i danced alone, asking everyone to dance, at the first 3mins i looked like a complete idiot dancing by himself and i could see that she thought so too.

but then another guy danced with me and another, until i got the whole place dancing, and i was the coolest guy on that club that night, everyone was asking for my numbers girls and guys, for contact. and there was this one girl to whom i consider to be a 9-10 girl long brown hair, white skin Filipina/Chinese/Japanese. EXOTIC!! she came up to me and said "i think your hot, and a sexy dancer" i smiled and took her by the back and towards a corner and made out. she saw this too.

after this i my feet was abit tired to dance so i sat down besides her and said come dance with me, but she wouldn't, i knew that she wanted to dance with the other guy, and so i aksed the guy to dance with her, but he wouldn't either.

me being tierd and on fire, i kept dancing and it came to a heated dance showdown with another dancer i asked the crowd to cheer my friend to dance and everyone was screaming her name and the guy's name at this point, but still wouldnt dance.

so when we got off the bar, we had plans to go to another one its still 3:00am. but i was financially broke and i had to leave, so i told her she can come with me or with them, she chosed them and i tried to give her a hug but she pushed me away. she said i was being weird and she was tipsy the next day. i wanted to talk to her but she wont reply to me anymore i want to end it officialy

Mind games. It ain't healthy.

You want a relationship with a girl who wants to play the field. She sees you as the guy she can have and was annoyed when she seen you get one up on her by scoring someone else. Just end it but be FWB or just friends. Just because you liked her doesn't mean you have to give up all those sandwiches.