Guys,

Here's something that keeps bugging me inside. The common attitude being taught on this forum can be worded as "You have priorities, and women ain't in there. They have to EARN it." Great - if only girls were aware about it

I mean, my life experience tells me that the majority of girls wouldn't even think of competing for a guy's time. On the contrary, they won't go for a guy until they feel 100% sure they are his priority #1. They would rather settle for a less cool / average guy who's dedicated, so to say, than for a cool guy whose attention they'd need to earn.

Hell, some girls even say something along the lines of "I want a man who will come to my life and stay there no matter what" - this sounds like "I want an AFC with one-itis" in PU lingo to me... But weren't we told by the gurus that no girl finds an AFC attractive?

So this makes me think if such an attitude is the best one for someone who does NOT game models / actresses / strippers etc.

Any thoughts / comments?

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Bro,

All those pictures and shit girls post on Facebook and Instagram about how "the only man who deserves you is the one who thinks he doesn't" is a PERFECT example of modern social conditioning. That's what their LOGICAL minds want but EMOTIONALLY, it is NOT what they want. In order to pull women, you've gotta fuck with their emotions. They want the man who is pre-selected. Always have and always will. Don't get your head caught up in all their bullshit cause it WILL make you turn into an AFC. Those bullshit posts make guys think that is what they want... guys act like that. Then girls complain about it and go right back to the "bad boy"

Women want what they can't have. Once they KNOW that they have you... they get bored. They are like retards and move onto the next "shiny thing" lol

Thanks, bro! Well, that's something I am aware of... let me put it another way, then.

The default biological programming for females is "Find an alpha male and beta-ise him", we all know this on this board. I do believe, though, that at least some girls who:

a) either have been hurt by an alpha male they didn't manage to tame / keep around, or
b) just do not feel self-confident enough to go for a true alpha male,

somehow "override" this programming and start intentionally looking for beta, provider-type men.

It's like... we all want to sleep with HB10s but many guys believe they don't stand a chance (and what they also know is most HB10s are not an LTR material anyway) - so they settle for someone less cool but more available (of course it should be noted that while almost every guy would be up for an ONS, girls are more focused on relationships)

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I'm looking for more class rather than just ass

Uhm, no. Most guys (AFCs) would focus on relationships while girls, given the opportunity, will cheat with the bad boy alpha male while discreetly maintaining their relationships with their AFC boyfriends or husbands.

Majority of men try their best to make their relationships work while majority of women file the divorce or do the breaking up either directly but most often subtly. Make no mistake about it.

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