Hey guys, new to this world but after reading the Game realized this is the best place for non bias advice!

I am 42, 5'9 225 lbs and go to the gym daily. I get my dates from online and can get dates that way easily but here is my issue.
So last year I had a liver transplant because of cancer. I am 100% cured but I can't drink. And have some minor dietary restrictions but have to take anti rejection pills at 8and 8. So I avoid tue subject right now and tell them I don't drink because my trainer told me not to. But they seem to think im a secret alcoholic.
I do volunteer at the hospital for organ donation.
So is there a way I can use being a cancer survivor or transplant recipient to my advantage or shoud I continue to wait till sex when they see the giant scars from surgery?

It sucks when I get a text " good luck on your health" after a date...I am not a whiner either. I work full time ect. The other issue is some women find it to be a curiosity but loose focus on me.

Thanks in advance.

Hey man, you'd be better off posting this in the general questions forum, that is looked at a lot more - I've just stumbled across this today whilst looking for an older post.

I can see no reason why your situation need be a negative. I don't think any girl would say "oh, you had cancer and fought it off, I'm not going to see you again"!! It's a part of you, just say it how it is. If anything, girls will be impressed that you've fought it off and are able to talk about it in a positive and strong manner.

If girls are focussing on it 'too much' and you would rather they focused on you, then just say something like you are doing about not drinking because of your training or whatever. But I see no reason why this would affect your ability to get a second/third date etc.