Ok you need serious help with your looks.

1) New hair cut. Right now it looks like you put a bowl on your head and cut your hair. Go to a salon ask a stylist and let them do work.
2) Stop wearing those apple shirts. Nothing says I'm a virgin more than shirts like so.
3) Wear shirts that actually fit you.
4) Smile in pics and get rid of the blank stare. It looks creepy.
5) Hit the gym.
6) Develop a sense of style

Good luck.

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Sinceriously,
Serj

If I just smile, what does that do?

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Makes you look more human, nice, and engaging. Why would you want to hang out with someone that isn't even fun?

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Even the most naturally gifted can learn to become better.

It makes you look happy to start with.
But more underlying when some just stares in a picture it makes them look sad or boring.

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Sinceriously,
Serj

Here ya go

1) Get a haircut, if you don't know what type walk into a hairdresser shop and tell a female hairdresser to make you look sexy

2) Try get in shape, going for runs is probably the best if you can't be bothered joining a gym

3) Don't take photos in the toilet

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-sb

dude if you want a makeover, do what everyone has described. haircut, get in shape, nutritionist. great shit. but single handedly, your outlook on life will bring you the best success. if you believe, you will achieve. so go get a haircut, get buff, go run, eat good healthy foods and lean protein... be a wellrounded person, play sports, read books etc. enjoy life and excitement, pick up and pussy will come to you. believe in yourself

"if you do not have anything good to say dont say it" that includes you too. confidence bro. so dont beat yourself up, shrug it off and think you have another day to try something new. you probs dont have parkinsons disease, arthritis, cancer or AIDS. you have things to be thankful for, a full head of hair, youth and this pick up community here to help you. you're not 6 feet under yet, take advantage of it while you can.

here is a good toast to your future success

Here's to a long life and a merry one

A quick death and an easy one

A pretty girl and an honest one

A cold pint - and another one!

^my new favorite toast

i wish you luck!

J Slay

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Slayin ladies all around the world

You miss 100% of the shots you never take.
- Wayne Gretzky

To those of you who have that softer spiked up hair look, how do you guys do it?
I always end up getting harder spikes and it's not what I want.
I'm trying the axe spiked up putty since I heard some good reviews for it. If anyone has suggestions, it would be most appreciated.

use a softer gel or wax, and run a comb through it when it's still wet

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Even the most naturally gifted can learn to become better.

First off gel will give you the opposite result that you want.
Secondly find a wax with a weak hold and low shine or high shine depending on if you want shiny hair.
I personally recommend Hanz De Fuko waxes they are the best but take awhile to ship since they come from Europe.

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Sinceriously,
Serj

I wanted to ask, do looks change from the age of 19 to the age of 25?

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

No, you remain exactly the same.

Where are pictures of you with all the good advice you have recieved?

Yes they do!

Honestly, this thread has been going on for a long time and every time I check it it is the same thing. You get advice and keep asking for more and more info. This means that your problem is not in your looks, it is in your mind.

I understand that change is difficult and scary and if you still suck even after those changes, it means that thats it, you will never get good... At least in your mind. That is NOT true!

Let me ask you a question. Straightforward honest question.

Are you READY to change your looks or are you just waiting for something to magically change you into a casanova?

If you are NOT ready, everybody trying to help you here are just wasting their time.

Stop the Analysis Paralysis and stop stalling for time. Make the change NOW. Every day you stall, is a day wasted.

Ezo

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Yes they do.
They change your entire life.
While some features will remain the same and many will change

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Sinceriously,
Serj

Basically this.

On another note I had my eyebrows done by the gal who does my hair, looks pretty decent, may keep this up.

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Can you feel my dick.. Fucking your mind..?