Is anybody out there confident enough to approach women in day game but just sort of thinks arr fuck it when there about to approach.....see heres my problem im confident enough to do this i know i am because i can play the women i work with like i own them and i work with a lot of women...but when im out in the street or whatever ill get a look off a HB but just dont make my move not because im scared i just dont.. is this approach anxsiety or somethin entirely different and if it is what the fuck can i do to snap my self out of this god awfull habbit???

What do you feel/think internally when ever you look at a HB on the street and not want to approach her?

- Chris

I firmly believe that you will keep talking yourself out of it unless you have a reliable wing to push you into it. If yo have moral support with you there is no chance that you will back out; trust me.

IIRC you live in Liverpool and I am actually moving there in a few days. If you need a wing I'll happily oblige.

internally i feel calm strong and relaxed like so what if i talk to her so what if i dont.....its like theres no motivation or no real reason to speak to this girl like i could talk to her if i wanted but whats in it for me!!!! is this wrong?

when i learnt about htese techniques i actually realised that in retrospect i do some of them naturally anyway.

lets say that the opener you used was actually REAL and the only person nearby to ask WAS a HB. Would you feel uncomfortable then? My point is that you only feel nervous etc. because you see the process as being a means to an end. You know you are approaching this girl cause you want to put your willy inside her, but for all she knows you are genuinely asking her opinion or whatever.
You need to almost develop split personalities in that respect.

The best mindset to be in is one where you KNOW deep down that you don't need her - she wants you and she'll never know it until you show her!

I hope that makes sense.

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