OK. Meetup is 7:45-8 at Porterhouse in Covent Garden.

See you all then..

Hey all!

Was great last night. I managed to get a HB8 (would have given her a 9 if she was younger, she's 32, and married...) chicks number.

I noticed her looking at me most of the night while I was up on the podium dancing away, but she never approached me at all while I was dancing. End of the night comes, as I was walking down the stairs, I feel someone grabbing my arm. I look around and there she was grabbing my arm!

I kind of got nervous as it was so unexpected and she tells me to come outside with her. She asks me if I have a mobile with me and I tell her I do. She gives me her number and said she wants to meet up with me again.
I was curious of her age. She looked young, but I could tell she was not in her early 20's. She then says, "You should not ask a woman her age!" while smiling. I laugh and say, "It's only out of curiosity". She then says that she will tell me if I tell her my age. I tell her I am 25 and she says, "Aww you are a baby!" She then tells me that she is 32 and married...but also says the marriage is not going well when she sees the shock on my face after hearing that she was married.

She told me she may go An Anon tonight again with a few other girls. I'll text her shortly to see. I would call, but I'm too nervous and afraid her husband maybe close by :/

Mysterious-Mind: So you know what she's after go for it.

Hi Guys, How did the weekend go? Tiger Tiger, Verve?

Verve was great (for about 5 minutes). We walked into a private party. Lots of 9's there .. started talking to a 3 set .. but we had to leave since the guys already ejected (which was ok, we couldn't stay there anyway). Also.. it's a very small venue. So for future visits it's better to go only with very few people.

Jewel was good .. many women. Definitely worth to visit on a Saturday.

On Anon was so so.

I realised I prefer places where people go to socialise and talk and not to drink a lot and dance. So, we need to find more jewel-like bars/lounges!

Yes, I agree we need to find more lounge bars, this means making the effort though. There should be plenty of places in Soho really. I'll do some research and see what options are on the menu for us to checkout.

Hey oracle1. She called me this afternoon after waking me up with the call hehe
I kind of got really, really nervous though because of the whole situation thing. She did tell me her husband is going off to some meeting for a few days and said she'll like me to stay over the night with her. Here's the situation though. One part of me is saying, "hell yes! She is flipping hot as hell and I'll be kicking myself if I let this offer down!", while another part of me is saying, "No! It's wrong!".

Damn I'm really confused as I don't want to do something seen as bad.


Anyway, Verve sounds cool from the post I read.

Hi mate, loved the dancing!Anyway go for it, dont hate the playa, hate the game!

Some thoughts on venues.

Lounge bar
bar with sofas/comfortable seats,
Large sets sitting but plenty of people standing by bar,
might need to do some seated sets.
Good sarging venue

Bar
Most people are standing.
Good sarging venue

Dance bar
Small dance area. More intimate than club, can do bit of verbal game but will
need good non verbals.

Nightclub
Large dance area v.loud music
Dance/non-verbal game required.
Girls will have their game fully switched on.

Pub
Traditional British drinking den
Largely male, get pissed or quiet drink orientated
Not really suited for sarging but as it's a non-pickup
culture girls maybe more friendly than bars i.e less bitch shield.

Chic pub
Large bar area, mostly sitting, windows facade.
Poor sarging venue as most female sets are seated.

Often places will have two types of bar eg lounge and dance...

bar & dance
eg Digress

lounge & dance
eg Boardwalk, Langley, Jewel Covent Garden

Lounge
eg Jewel Piccadily

multi-bar & dance/club hybrid
eg On anon

Chick Pub
eg All Bar One

Some possibilities bars/lounges...

http://www.alphabetbar.com/alphabet/index.asp
http://www.viewlondon.co.uk/restaurants ... 17968.html
http://www.viewlondon.co.uk/restaurants ... 15982.html
http://trustedplaces.com/review/uk/lond ... restaurant
http://www.viewlondon.co.uk/restaurants ... 14284.html
http://www.barsoho.co.uk/
http://www.worldsbestbars.com/city/soho ... ondon.html

Skulder: nice breakdown. I liked Jewel myself--(picadilly)--I second wht Oracle said. As for pubs, I've always liked one called Blue Posts in Soho. Kind of a small first level, but I've always met people there--not sarging, but it's a friendly place and a good crowd--(easy to open)

Mysterious Mind--your escapade is livening up the thread Look at it this way--you're in this to improve. And this girl is pretty forward--she's obviously aware of what she's doing. It's not like you've sleazily seduced her out of a happy marriage. Go over there, have fun, and chalk it up as fun and practice. Is she the girl you're looking for? I seriously doubt it. But if you want to go for it, there's really nothing wrong with it.

Skulder: nice classification! Polka and Bar Soho looking good. Found this one

Bar/Lounge:
http://www.village-soho.co.uk/tour/village.php

Hey all!

hehe argh. True. I am still thinking what to do Ahhhh!

Nice work on the list Skulder!

btw, I used the craziest opener today on a HB9 haha, and it worked (but did I get her number? Noooooo! ). This is what happened:

I was at College today and one flipping hot chick was there. My friend Gary almost forced me to approach her, so I did and boy, was I shaking like hell! Cleared my throat and went in for the "kill". So, briefly the conversation went like this (not word to word btw):

Me: Hey there! Can you do me a big favour?

HB9: What? (blanking look, which almost fecked up my self esteem and made me a little nervous)

Me: Right, I just want to prove to you that I am psychic. Can I demonstrate on you?

HB9: Are you serious? (she smiled a bit that calmed me down ha!)

Me: I am VERY serious! (I said smiling)

HB9: Ok, try and impress me (for some bloody reason, this made me nervous and I started the fecking shakes, but I don't think she realised)

Me: Right. I am going to select two numbers, and you are going to pick one number from the first number I choose and the second, or any other number between them, write it down, and I am going to guess it right. Ok?"

HB9: Alright, this is different, go ahead. (At this fecking stage I got MORE nervous and I could not find the God damn pen in my pocket! I managed to find the piece of paper though! Fortunately this part made her laugh and she handed me her pen...)

Me: Right. The two numbers are..........1 and..........3

HB9: (She really laughs here meaning part of the plan work ha!) Are you serious? A number between 1 and 3?

Me: Yah, still there is a 66.666% of getting it wrong it's still very impressive. In fact, I was going to select 1 and 2, but as I felt really confident, 1 and 3 were the numbers I selected for you (I said smiling to her).

She laughs again at this stage and it carries on. I'll cut the story short or I will be all day writing hehe. Finally I guess the flipping number wrongly but I blame her (in a friendly way though! ) for not having faith in me that made me go all wrong.
Anyway, I did not know how to carry on with her after that ha! And I said to her I had to go. Before I left she asked me my name and she told me her name (Isabella). Ah well, no phone number....
Hopefully I'll keep on practising and learning from my mistakes.

That's my story for today guys!
Have fun and see you soon

Hey Oracle. Are u sure about 'The Village'?
I'd check again if I were u.
lol

Is it a gay place?! .. Oook. thanks!

Mr Mysterious...
"Anyway, I did not know how to carry on with her after that ha"
If she asked you for your name then you should have moved to qualify her, that means screen her (so what talents have you got then etc?). Use this to then develop some rapport (find some commonalities etc) then get her number.
This is the Game!