Its explained by many of the "MPUA" who do the boot camps and such..


But The way I'll say it is this... The whole reason for PUA in the first place.. and Don Juan and Casanova... all that shit.. is that Women had to create a way of screening out men.. The chodes, the toads, the tards.. etc..

There were some guys whom were "Naturals" at it.. growing up.. the "cool guys" the "popular" guys.. that everything seemed to go easy.. Athletic.. naturally socially adept.. whatever.. They had the girl.. and we were sittin there..
The "Friend"... The hopeless annoying kid... the spaz.. The shy one.. geek.. whatever..

We just didnt look or couldnt be the part of getting in with "the cool kids"... they just didnt want us..

Then there are those who sure.. we could get some girls.. but it was never the ones we reaaaally wanted... The lesser attractive women whom werent in the popular groups.. who were easier to get.. alls ya had to do pretty much is say Hi to them and you were in.. yet never leaving you satisfied..
You wanted the girl that was your first choice.. and you wanted to be her.. first choice..


They dont apologize... they dont care what your story is.. why you are the way you are... they want what they want.. and thats the bottom line... Conform to it.. or settle for less.. either way.. if you can be happy with less than you want.. sure.. go for it.. or if you are just one of those guys that would like any girl to like them back.. then.. hey.. alls you really need to do is build approach skills.. and some basic convo and you will get what you want...

If you are like me.. and You go for the top girls.. the models.. the sexy swimsuit models.. well.. you need alot more than just.. an opener..
You better be one hell of an interesting guy.. someone she will want to be around.. So.. that takes time to build the characteristics that these girls/women go for..
You need to Build a strong Foundation..

Your first part of your Foundation will be A Good Positive attitude... yer not the guy who is always whining about shit.. always complaining.. always like "FML".. its soo self defeating.. Shit goes wrong for everyone realistically.. just work through it.. and move past it... when people ask.. always have that sort of attitude..

Your second part of your Foundation is Confidence... Your Top Tier women.. want a confident man.. someone who knows who he is and what he is capable of.. He will approach a woman without effort and just talk.. and wow.. he doesnt seem to have an agenda.. he is just talking.. Keep her interested..


What our purpose should be for learning this "GAME"... Yea.. we are guys.. we like to get laid.. sure..
That should not be our Goal parsay... Our Goals should be positive social interactions with others...with males too.. alot of these Gorgeous women we love have many male friends... and alot of them could be kick ass people.. hell you may end up being better friends with your targets male friend then her once you find out who they really are.. and wow.. now you are in with whatever other hot girls he knows... Its called Networking... Thats what the game is for really..
Primarily is for Building a STRONG social network.. getting good with interacting with people.. Getting Laid.. is a secondary ...
If you build a strong social network.. and people like you.. invite you places.. want to be around you... Trust me.. you will get laid.. the problems will be more.. shit... which hottie do I not wanna hurt their feelings more.. or.. hmm could I have both at same time? You dont just have a Clique.. you are now part of many cliques..
You now know everyone.. and more importantly.. Everyone knows you...

Life seems so much better when people like you.. They want to do things for you.. they want to introduce you to their hot friends cause.. yer a cook mofo.. "hey man.. I have a girlfriend.. but my friend April is hot as fuck and is single.. I think you'd like her"

The Best way to meet a quality GF in my experience is through friends.. meeting a girl through mutual friends is the easiest.. their guard is down.. her friends already know you.. and speak highly of you.. its like having a shoe in at a job.. You may not be guaranteed the job.. but you come in with a better chance than the other applicants.. the rest is up to you to just be the guy that the friends speak highly about.. which should be easy.. because thats who u are every day haha..


Well That is my lil sum up of what my experience of the game and my views of how it should be played.. goal wise...

Thanks for Reading and any feedback is welcome...

~Genuine

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Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

AND THATS THE BOTTOM LINE CAUSE STONE COLD SAID SO,
just having social networks doesn't automatically get you laid,
if you never escalate it is not likely a girl will, she will just keep throwing interest your way in the hopes you do something, i can't remember one time in my life where a girl, invited me to her house, then when i got there, she tryed to place the claw on me, then give me a kiss, then try to make out with me, then try to grope me, then ignored all my, ''but this is too soon'' bullshit, then froze me out, then finally got the cock like a champion, social circles give you opportunities if you can't approach, that is all, and social proof gives you more attraction, that is all, build an attractive lifestyle and you will thus become attractive,

but being attractive and getting laid are two seperate things, your post is like saying BEING GOOD LOOKING AUTOMATICALLY GETS YOU LAID BRO, sure it makes it easier, but it isn't automatic, just like having alot of money

I've been in big social networks as an AFC and still struggled to get laid. Sure the odd easy option comes up because of who you know, but only a few times a year, and you still have to know how to pounce on it. And even then half the girls in your social network end up dating and fucking complete outsiders anyway!!

A PUA who is a loner is going to pick up heaps more chicks than an AFC in a big social network.

So no I don't think having huge amounts of friends is THE key.

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If I came off like thats all there is.. I appologize.. I'll edit this post later..


Vic ~ That is true that an AFC in a large network of people still will get less than a Lone PUA at a bar who knows what he is doing..
I've been on both aspects.. after I had gotten out of a 3 year LTR.. I had not that many local friends.. and was kinda "starting over" and sure I met girls and got laid and it still was pretty easy..
My emphasis on having a large social network.. is.. now.. I really dont try much.. anywhere I go in social enviroments where people know me.. It almost comes off as effortless.. of course if I was a shy scared AFC.. I wouldnt be escalating nor taking que's (hints) from women that an experienced PUA naturally would..

Pumpington ~ "because stone cold said so".. haha Epic.. Love it paint it anyway.. thats still funny.. Thanks for that.. it made my morning.. I do come off like that sometimes I suppose..

Now if you are an AFC and you are out there meeting people and you keep talking to people.. you will start loosing part of that shyness and approach anxiety.. I have a post that deals with approach anxiety somewhere on this board.. that is very effective.. it worked for me when I was still an AFC...

If u are a lone AFC and build a social network from scratch of people u want to be around.. it helps you alot.. with getting laid..
because in the process of building that social circle you are transending from being shy and awkward with approach.. sure you cant stop there..
I do say yes.. make friends with alot of beautiful women.. not intending on sleeping with all.. when you are meeting a new girl.. make it more your decision if its gonna be a "friendzone" "FB" possible girlfriend.. or whatever else.. when talking with her..



My place here on this forum is learning how to explain what I know better and easier for less experienced people can have more success out there..

I love feedback like you have given.. Thank you..

~Genuine

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Keep doing that and I'll make you tremble...

Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

Yea OK I see where you're coming from. Sought of instead of "opening the whole club" you're "opening the whole town". I dig.

I've been in big social networks but honestly I think I'd rather have a small group of core friends and then just branch off occasionally to find randoms to fuck, too much politics and shit in big networks, but's that's just me.

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Genuine, I see where you`re coming from, writing out your latest understandings of the Game. My only question is stating how this is the way it SHOULD be played. That`s really the only thing that rubbed me the wrong way. Everyone has different experiences, levels of goals, and yada yada. I`m sure for you, you`ve hit a comfortable spot, and want to celebrate it. Do it, my only request is that you come at it from a different angle, something along the lines of `this has worked for me` and if you want to start a debate, maybe add `what has worked for you`at the end.

Only my two cents,

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- Soren Kierkegaard

Vic ~ Yes.. I agree about the core of friends as well.. as I have my close friends that I am around most... as with my social circle.. We are kind of circles within circles.. My close friends go out and meet up and we then are meshed in with other close circles making a larger network and so forth..

There are times I do go to places I dont know or never been.. and yes.. I wont be in a huge social circle.. I will be in my smaller one.. maybe even constisting of 1-2 others besides myself.. and then at times.. Out Solo.. I spoke from a general standing...


When I say "reason we play the game"... or the goals of the game..
When we are single especially.. sure, we do want sex... what I meant mostly was.. When you do meet girls.. your agenda shouldnt be how to get her into bed.. though part of us wants to.. we are attracted to them... and we are guys.. of course we want to sleep with them.. but it shouldnt be a "Goal" parsay..
The Goal should be more to have a quality social interaction with her that gives her a positive feel for you.. she likes being around you..
Make it so its u deciding whether or not you are going to make it an attraction.. or friendship..


In my early 20's especially.. Oh My I wanted to fuck every hot chick I met.. and slept with alot of them.. It was fun.. but also leaves ya feelin.. great.. I know how to get a girl to fuck me.. but.. now what... also.. if you do that to often around where you live.. you get a reputation.. which sure.. Guys will be like... Damn.. hes a PIMP.. and Girls think yer a Player or Manwhore.... so when you do seriously want a girlfriend.. it becomes difficult.. because they wont take you seriously...

I can execute these things very well.. I am just trying to find the best ways to transmute it into the easiest way to learn the things I have learned over the years so the less fortunate guys that are having alot of trouble getting people and most importantly the women they like.. to like them back..

~Genuine

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Keep doing that and I'll make you tremble...

Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

If you want to fuck as many chicks as possible, yea have a shitload of friends. But I'll sacrifice some lays for piece of mind. Fucking friends or even friends of friends, well look I dunno about all the other guys on here, but I've had a lot of dramas with these situations. Jealous fuck-buddies, misunderstandings, bitter ex-lovers, two mates going for the same girl, fucking your mates ex, chicks falling for you but you not falling for them, you falling for them but them not falling for you... the list goes on. It ends up feeling like a bad episode of Melrose Place.

Lately though I've concentrated on picking up complete strangers and it is so much less hassle. When it's over it's over 100%, there's no backfire or anything, no little ripples or awkward situations at parties, nothing. You can fuck her brains out and never call back and there's no side effects whatsoever. I have much less female induced headaches now than I did in my old social group. Life is much simpler.

But like I said that's just me.

And after that little rant, I admit I would like to spend maybe a year or two in a big network again. I've only ever been in those networks as an AFC and I had a few great chances with some HB8's and HB9's that I didn't have the skills at the time to pounce on. With my new found PUA weapons I reckon I'd tear up a big network

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Genuine, I think you came across a very good point. Ive noticed that the more socially comfortable I got the more new people (not just HB's) I met. This has improved my life because it has made me more open to new experiences

I am very happy to hear this.. I am glad that this is advancing your life in other ways besides just women.. and It will continue..

I wish you the best


~Genuine

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Keep doing that and I'll make you tremble...

Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

It's definitely all about your social circle. Yes i've gotten laid with random girls from the bar or party... but back in high school I became part of the "popular" group because i made good friends with one of them through skateboarding. I started going to parties and hangouts in my junior year and by senior year I was getting laid pretty easily at parties. I had so many different girls crushin on me, that nearly every one I tried to "hangout" with was down. HS game is so nice because its typically a much smaller group of people (mine was 1200 people) compared to college, and its easy to generate "buzz" where people talk about you in a positive light when you aren't around.

In college, I partied a lot freshman year at the dorms and got a few girls. But unfortunately my GPA was terrible and I quit partying and really limited my social life to get my grades up, which I have now after 4 years of college. The past few years were not as fruitful for getting laid as they were when i was part of the popular group in high school. This is my own proof that social value is one of the very top attributes for younger males (and older ones too). I did not join a fraternity which can definitely help your social circle (duh), especially at a Uni like mine where greek life is huge.

But even in college or beyond.. all you really need at the bar minimum is a few guy friends that are not social retards. Then you can go out with them to the bars and parties and not be alone. Then at the bars I will leave them and approach a few girls, then eventually come back to them and see what's up, with the girl.

edit: I feel little satisfaction laying girls I don't know through SNL's and even FB's that I share little emotional connection with. I find the happiness through girls I really am into and feel a strong bond with, the feeling where you always want to be with her. Novelty is nice, but strong connection is nicer

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