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PostPosted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 7:48 pm 
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Hey dudes
There was this girl that once FZ me. Last time we spoke we had been in a huge fight over "why" I don't want to be friends with her that I never explained to her.
Now, everytime I see her at a club or at a event, I pretend that I don't see her.
Even if she touch my shoulder, and I dont react to it, sometimes she is even texting me to get my attention and still I dont answer (i've actually took out my phone on porpuse infront of her, and noded my head side to side like i was upset by this). And I know this is just one of a million times she will be doing this since she is really really stubborn to straighten things out.

Do someone here have an idea what I should do at this situation, and I dont want to play the nice dude in this occasion, I want her to fear to confront me.

I can only figure out really awful things to do like saying "I dont want to emberess you infront of everybody here, so just smile and walk away :) It was nice to see you."

And maybe i'm wrong about this, maybe she just want to say hey and thats it?
I never tried to say hi and hug and then walk away... maybe thats better? But this will confuse her hahahaha

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 9:51 pm 
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Never get angry at a woman for rejecting you. You can be a little upset, sure, but don't become angry and vindictive. It's not a cute look for anybody. Seriously, you're just trying to punish this girl now for not wanting to fuck you and the only real result is that you kinda look like a tool. If you're doing this to make her chase you, then stop acting like a prick and do something real. If you're just tired of her and want to move on in life, then be cordial. If she says hello, nod back. You don't have to hug her and ask how her day is. And shaking your head when you pull your phone out just to try to make her feel like shit is just mean and unnecessary. It is very clear that you are not over this girl because you are paying her just as much attention as when you were chasing after her. Now you are just acting in a negative way than a positive one, but the attention is still there.

What are you trying to accomplish? You said you want her to fear you, why on earth would you want people to fear you? There is a quote I like for these situations: The greatest insult an enemy can suffer is to be ignored. If you wanna ignore her, fine, but actually ignore her. As in don't react positively or negatively to her. She's not going to bang you because you go out of your way to make her feel worthless.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 09, 2011 2:18 pm 
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Well said, I appreciate your honest answer.
I will try to ignore her even though I know she will do anything to get my attention, but then I'll just do something small like nod as you said and then walk away or put my attention on someone else so that it will be obvious that i'm not going to chit chat with her.

I may have put some anger towards her wich now actually sounds stupid of me, causing all that drama is actually not worth it even though I brained fucked the shit out her and actually felt good the point is that it only creates more drama in the end, and my end is not even close yet, so I better turn the stake and make it a good one.

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 09, 2011 9:11 pm 
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Exactly man, and its nothin to be ashamed of. It happens to all of us once or twice. You can live your life without being her friend and without being mean. Just go out, live life, prove to her that you won't waste a moment's thought on her. Hell, prove it to yourself. I had a similar situation a while ago, dude. Girl friendzoned me, I was a dick to her every time she was near me. I am not proud of that situation. I had one of those epiphanies in life that does not happen nearly often enough, and let the anger go. And it wasn't quick, but it happened. My buddies threw a party and she showed up a couple weeks later. She tried to get me angry, true story. I saw her chillin with friends but if she was within 10 feet of me while I was DJ'ing, she would start grinding like a freak with whatever dude she could find. I was over it, though, and just went back to mixing things up. There was no angery, nor was I happy she looked like a ho. I just went "oh well, hopefully she doesn't black out." I surprisingly had mutual friends tell me how surprised they were at my actions, but they respected it.

The pettiness and drama has been glorified with us young people recently. I blame cheesy reality TV like Jersey Shore, but that's just my opinion. Stay above it, glad to hear you're gonna try to do so, dude.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 10, 2011 3:13 am 
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dj z kind of right, just act like NOTHING happened, act normal, neutral, when you see her say hi, and give her a kiss normal, say hi and keep moving, you have alziemers... amnesia, nothing happened, that is the best, i did the same with different girls and they ended up coming back to me...

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