I’m curious, When approaching women, what kind of “tests” have women put you through?

* besides the “I have a boyfriend”

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get a lot of ''what do you do''--my user/gold digger alert picks this up--i think of this as a reverse shit test where they fail

interesting.. you know i never thought of that as a test.. because i havent dealt with that many gold-diggers

but now i will take that into account

any others

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When I went for a makeout she said: "I'm not that type of girl."

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When i went for the number close with this one girl she ask if I remembered her name? (Her name is Alisha) and i said of course of i do. Paused for a moment and then i said michelle. (paused) just kidding i know you name is alisha but i almost got you. and ended with the close after that

I used to have the problem of being so focused on what to say next that i wouldnt pay attention to her name. Now my game is changing. Now I listen and respond to what she says rather than worrying about the perfect thing to say next

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"Believe It"
"The moment I start second-guessing myself, It's all over"

Realize the POWER of BELIEF

You get a lot of it because it's a normal, standard question to ask a guy that you're trying to get to know..

See, this^ is why I tell you guys repeatedly- go out and talk to people. Make friends, communicate, socialise. Don't be all about "pick-up" ... be about communication, because then you won't be paranoid and over thinking the typical questions people ask each other when they first meet.

"What do you do?" is as typical and mundane as it gets. 90% of the time, she wants to get to know you, she doesn't want your money; chill...

It's this paranoia and lack of socialisation outside of PU that leads you to dig your own grave.


-Roz

i hope she wants my money--cause i have none

i think of anything that either trys to make you seem incongruently cool (alter emotional state) is a shit test, usually looks like something reaction seeking on her part (sometimes sexual comments), or randomly irrational commands and mood swings, where if you don't handle it in the way she thinks you would handle it up until now she will lose attraction, for example a girl says, do you think i look fat?, you're so funny (in manner that doesn't seem serious even though she has been laughing), BUY ME A DRINK, WATCH MY PURSE, COME HERE, GIVE ME A CIGARETTE, YOUR HAIRY, YOUR UGLY, YOUR NOT FUNNY, THATS GROSS, THATS CREEPY, etc. etc. i don't think a girl qualifying you is a shit test, but if you qualify yourself too early to her you will come off as trying to shove a resume down her throat,
almost every shit test can be handled by just not answering and giving eye contact with a look that says are you serious, then ignoring the test and moving on to a different subject, or you can just spout random irrational gibberish, or reframe, or use c+f response, or just keep saying your mom, or that's what she said

if a HB asks what you do, just tell her your a stripper or something, thats what i use.

lol--had a friend in the sanatation department his answer to this was ''I shovel shit for New York State'' used to get rid of them, which he wanted as at the time he was going through a difficult divorce and had had enough,he just wanted to drink

great stuff guys.. any others?

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I liked Roz's point a lot, think about this, do you ever think a woman wonders 'How do I get passed this shit test?', the obvious answer is NO. If she isnt worrying about that shit then you shouldn't have to, the simplest way to get over every single shit test is to be completely centered in yourself at all times. If you are simply centered within yourself, she will see that nothing that she can do or say will ever make you feel uncomfortable, and they will just stop. I havent even thought of the concept of a 'shit test' for months and guess what, they dont ever happen, OMG imagine that.

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