| The following are some things I have noticed with girls I game inside my social circles, and at bars
GIRL RADAR: this is a pattern I have noticed with alot of girls, I deal with mostly the 18-24yr old crowd, I am with a girl and she will tell me she doesn't like Xgirl, usually that girl is into me, and often these kind of comments come up after the girl trys to speak with me, it varies in intensity ranging from ''I DON'T LIKE THAT GIRL'' to ''THAT GIRL IS A TOTAL BITCH/SLUT'' w/e they want to say often it is a negative comment made by one girl who I am with about another girl she knows, usually when she is aquainted with that girl or her friend but it will happen when she is isolated with me
Sort of works the same for guys, often I when a Girl is attracted, I see her flirting with other guys and hear about it, and if I ever ask what she thinks about the guy, she always ''DOESN'T LIKE HIM'' or ''HATES HIM'', be carefull with this though sometimes it is honest, but usually you can tell by her giving approach invites etc. (and usually this is completely irrelivant just sort of a fun game i started playing for self ammusement and noticed most girls who are into you follow this pattern)
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BOYFRIEND I have noticed a pattern that girls that are into me, seem to never mention a boyfriend at all, not when i show interest, not ever, with the exception of interest being shown, and she mentions boyfriend, but it is followed with BUT... (insert negative qualities here about boyfriend), if she mentions him without these parameters, that is a relationship I will not touch, but i have found in the past it is still progressable but sort of pointless why ruin a good relationship just for self ammusement when there are so many other single women out there
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APPROACH INVITES these are things I try to pickup on for easy targets (don't only rely on these as it is a crutch but it still makes your job easy) I will list them in the order I find of importance (for the eye contact invites it is important that she was seeking eye contact first and you did not look at her 1st)
(hair touching can also be replaced with, hand crosses over chest and scratches clavical, scratches back of hand between thumb and index finger, rubs forearm)
1)Girl approaches you and trys to start a random convo out of the blue
2)Girl seeks eye contact with you from a distance and when you give it, she holds it and smiles instead of looking away
3)Girl seeks eye contact with you from a distance and when you give it, she looks away and starts touching her hair
4)Girl looks at you and immdiately starts touching her hair
5)Girl looks at you then looks away, as you get about 8/5 feet close she looks again quickly but doesn't want to get caught looking
6)Girl touches her hair about 5/8 feet away from you just cause you came close
all of these are good signs you have attraction and she will open very easy and receptive, also if you find a girl is allways where you are, or in your area and it seems like she is following you, this can also be a good sign, other things i have noticed girls that try to touch you, girls that laugh all the time when you talk to them (but during random innapropriate times not during times when you are trying to joke) or try get you to keep talking to them when you are trying to break the convo, often are easy to close
GIRLS THAT TALK ABOUT SEX Girls that randomly try to get onto the topic of sex during every conversation, often are easy targets, now keep in mind some girls when you start to show interest in them throw random sexual congruence tests at you, this is not what im talking about, it is more like a girl will just try to switch the frame sexual and have a real conversation about sex and what they like etc. or something along those lines, it would not be them bringing up do you want me to blow you, then going on trying to make you feel uncomfortable/get a reaction out of you
DO YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND this question speaks for itself, you should always assume attraction IMO, but if you get this question, seriously, .... SERIOUSLY
Freeze Out Cycles I used to try to get one girl at a time, and worry about how do I do this, how do I not fuck it up, by bringing the girl to your house, escalating and trying to have sex you are making your chances better of sex occuring IMO, its either on or its not on, and often a girl will just flake and not show up to your house if she is not interested it is very rare I found that if a girl comes over to my house she does not allow me to escalate to sex, and when she doesn't allow it, or she flakes on comming to my house, allways freeze out and try again, over and over, handle flakes with freeze outs, then try again, she flakes again, freeze out again, over and over until she either puts out, or tells me to remove her from my phone, during freeze outs keep going out and getting new girls, it is my opinion that it is allways better to pull a girl home from a bar and go for same night F-close then to go for number or K-close, both numbers and makeouts/single kisses can lead to flakes, either way keep adding more and more women to your pool
Closeing at this point I am convinced that girls are a window of opportunity, if they are giving you the please fuck me vibe, close ASAP, as eventually they will think of a reason why they don't like you, you will do something to fuck it up, so please CLOSE,..... FUCKING CLOSE, anyways this post was my random thoughts of the moment, if anyone could add anything they have noticed to help my game it would be much appreciated
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