If you start to let yourself be led by your intent, your actions/words should follow in a more appropriate and natural way.


I think likely one of the things that holds a lot of people back prior to or perhaps even after 'joining the community', is that they deviate from their desire/intent, and so a lot of their actions become non-beneficial.


Being aware of and being led by your intent means that you don't get caught up in all insignificant and non-beneficial thoughts, actions, and behaviours.



Being aware...

You need to be aware of your feelings and desires, as well as your actions. It is important to be able to notice and be aware of yourself so you can be aware of what it is you're doing and feeling and keep in check if they are in-line with your intent... if not, correct them.

Another reason it's important to be very aware is because your intent, like everything, can change, and it is important to make sure your actions, words and behaviour isn't following the direction of your old intent... especially if your intent changes from wanting to get to know her to wanting to fuck her or date her or whatever.

Being aware and trusting in your true intent should make your actions follow in appropriate ways.



Using and following your intent...

"Mode One" could be a very simple and basic example of your words being led by your intent. But it is by no means the only way your words can be led by your intent. Your intent could be expressed very subtly through your words. As long as you don't deviate from the path of your intent, and continue moving towards where your intent is placed, you should arrive there with a lot more ease.

You don't need to focus on, nor worry about, 'what to do/say' as if you trust and follow your intent, all of that should happen on it's own.

That's why it's important to be aware of your intent and your actions; keep a check on both of them to make sure they're in harmony... make sure you're aware of your intent, then make sure your words and actions are communicating and working towards that goal/desire.



Love

~Finesse

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Good to see you back, Finesse!

And I like what this says, though I feel like a lot of people might misinterpret this, and just start doing whatever comes naturally to them... which, in a lot of cases, probably isn't what's going to help them most.

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Thanks, man.

That's the thing, people need to realise that sucking up to a girl, or all the non-beneficial thoughts/actions aren't what comes from their natural self, it all comes from inferior influences... and the best way to realise such things, and know where your thoughts and actions are coming from is to increase and build your awareness. And learn to be really aware of yourself.

I hope you were able to get something from this post, my friend.



love

~Finesse

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

hmmm... That's something similar that Tim said in Flawless Natural if you have the right amount of intent and the right amount of Woo then you'll be naturaly good in picking up girls.

And I find that very true, cause if you have constantly that intent in your head, you'll automaticaly back up every action you do and every word you say. Non-verbaly of course.

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good post...

one huge reason most guys don't get laid is because the lack of intent. I used to do this, where I would talk to the girl for an hour and the sexual tension would steadily drop after the first 5-10 minutes when she realized I was there just to make a bar buddy.

I believe the best way to fix this and truly show intent is to get a boner. Like I will intentionally become pervy and check out her body as we're talking and she will act like she doesn't notice. I'm simply admiring her feminenity. Then I may think of what it will sound like when she's sucking on my peen later that night. This will make kino so much easier for me because it's like a snowball effect. I will get horny with my mind, touch her, get even hornier, she gets horny, then we can be horny together. And i'm not talking about social kino (touching arm to get attention), but rather touching her thigh to see how she reacts. She acts like nothing happened? I do it even longer and may squeeze it.

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