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| Warped Mindless | PostPosted: Sat Jul 02, 2011 6:21 pm | |
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Posts: 2197 | | It seems every time someone on here ask about why he got flaked on for a date, or the girl never called him back/answered her phone/flaked for whatever reason, a bunch of people respond by saying
"NOT ENOUGH COMFORT BUILT!!!!"
I believe this whole "flake = lack of comfort" myth originally came from Mystery Method but I'm not totally sure.
While I admit that comfort can play a small part in it, the biggest reason for a chick flaking on you is mainly due to lack of interest/attraction towards you.
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| jurupa | PostPosted: Sat Jul 02, 2011 10:21 pm | |
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Location: OC, California | | Agree. 90% of the time when a girl flakes it is because she isn't that interested in you, period. The other 10% of the time is because shit does happen in life and it can get in the way of things from time to time.
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| Indie00 | PostPosted: Sun Jul 03, 2011 3:12 pm | |
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Posts: 98 | | I still think comfort. Of course not having built attraction before hand would make any comfort built irrelevant.
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| Arrow_Sheen | PostPosted: Sun Jul 03, 2011 6:16 pm | |
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Posts: 80 | | When a girl flakes, she has thought about the idea of meeting up with you, and decided that she doesn't want to do it, its as simple as that, the reasoning behind her deciding this is impossible to truly understand, as only she knows the reason why she didn't want to
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| Don Draper | PostPosted: Mon Jul 04, 2011 1:42 pm | |
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Posts: 1614 | | Basically, most times it's just a case of "I am not sure about him and I want him to go away. Maybe, I'll give him a wrong number or stand up him blah blah blah''.
It's about the lack of attraction AND comfort. Not one without the other.
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