I all the time see guys trying to make their interactions with women "perfect" and "mistake free." This is actually a pretty bad goal to strive for.

You will never have a "perfect/mistake free" interaction and striving to do so will only put you inside of your head and cause you to worry.

The "game" is played in damage control.

Making mistakes and recovering from them really only helps you so long as you don't let those mistakes bother you.

Making bold moves is attractive but sometimes the bold movies will backfire. Recovering from this (damage control) is also attractive.

Stop worrying about doing everything perfect, it will never happen. Remember, the game is played in Damage Control

Interact, have fun, fuck up, recover and fuck the girl.

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Do you really see guys trying to perfect their game and make it mistake free all the time?

Or do you see guys trying to improve their game?

Yes to both.

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You know what, i've always been a nice guy, and not in the bad sense, now that i've learnt so much already it's helped feel alot more comftable in being able to express being a nice guy without kissing a girls arse. Being confident has helped me be better at being nice if that makes sense. I just never had the balls to be interesting and funny. Now I do.

Now I don't care so much about being perfect as I just think people make mistakes and I can have fun.
I will never be an arsehole, I will just be cocky funny becuase it's in my nature.

Then again, I'm not in this to get laid, I just like interacting.

Don't be perfect, be free.

Good advice. Imperfection IS perfect. . . and in terms of pick up, can work for you in many ways. . .