A rule of thumb I'm starting to develope is picking my targets carefully at parties.

For some odd reason, whenever I game a total HB at a party that I want, and am initially drawn to because she stands out the most, I usually fail. I can honestly say my lay success rate is around 5% with these girls.

When it comes to girls that I don't find attractive at first (no, not because they're ugly, but more personal preference), I noticed I tend to have a higher success rate with them. I'm going to ball park it around 14%.

Now this got me thinking--It's like the total HBs I am initially attracted to on sight KNOW I am attracted to them, so it disqualifies me as a potential lay for them that night unless they either get wasted or my game is extremely tight that night. With these HBs It's like I have to WORK for them.

With the second group of HB's, the ones I am not initially attracted too or my picky physical standards tells me to go out and do better, it's like they have to work for me. I mean essentially they are, but I thought it was interesting how there were these reverse roles with HBs.

So this got me thinking, If I want the one night stand or the threesome, I should definately go for the HB7-9 that I wouldn't cream my panties over go out of my way to game. Circumstantial opening and approach, never coordinated, planned, or intended.

But when it comes to the total HBs, my game changes, maybe I put too much effort in it.

I think when it comes to the total HBs, even if you guys don't suffer from the same thing as I do, it's best not to let the total HB get leverage over you by being attracted to her. I'm going to pretend she is my sister or some shit

Just wanted to share my insight on the roles I seem to play with total HBs, and just HBs.

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