Many things in this forum mention how you should wink after a certain period of time, after a joke, and etc. And it may work, if you know how to pull it off, which i don't know how to do, and even if you do, it may create some tension.

Ever notice when you wink at a girl that she might pause for a sec, or look around, or start feeling weird? this is because a wink CREATES tension.

This tension is mysterious, I don't know exactley how it works, but it does create the feeling that you are coming on to the girl, and this is bad. but it's not like saying, "can i hug you?" because something about this specific body motion almost translates into "I WANNA date you," or "LET'S have sex."

Again i'm not sure how it works, but the wink will definantly backfire somehow. I don't wink. and whether or not you think winking works the girl will feel some tension, and become scared.

Well anyways, see you guys next time

You have to feel comfortable with the wink and have the understanding of when to use it. I've used it with success but only after I was already laid by the girl and she worshiped me.

Ya, i've used it on my girlfriend...

not someone who i just met, or even someone i am friends with.

Depends upon who's doing the winkin'.

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LMAO! So true. I also agree with El Rey and Trivial.

There is nothing wrong with winking, if you know how to use it. If you are giving the girl creepy vibes or something, I suggest it's not the winking that's screwing you up, but something else in your body language.

I use winking just before initial contact. When looking around a club or bar and find a girl looking at me I hold EC for a few seconds, just long enough to make it clear I have EC (10-20 sec), wink, hold for a few more seconds, then slowly turn away.
I know, many of you are thinking now never break EC. But what this method does is communicate that you are not intimidated by her, you know that she is into you, and you're loosing interest in her if she doesn't approach.

In conversation I have no idea where to put a wink, it just does fit in with the rest of my body language.

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I like your method of EC with winking Rose.

I very rarely wink. I prefer a smirk. It achieves the same cocky attitude and I have a great smile, but winking just doesn't feel right, I think my cheeks stick out too much when I do it. I can also only pull off a wink with contacts, it looks terrible when someone with glasses winks.

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LOL Rye Lee, you never wink in glasses, it will always come off looking foolish.

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Anyone can walk into a bar and pick up a random girl.
The trick is to make the experience unforgettable to her.
A real PUA will make every women he encounters feel like she experience something once in a lifetime.

Exactly. I still think I look foolish winking with contacts. I MUCH prefer a one sided grin.

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Usually I will do one raised eyebrow with a little smirk. Sometimes while doing it my other eye does a mini wink... I guess it depends on how high I raise my eyebrow. A good example of it would be Joey's "hos you doin'?"

I will usually only wink to a girl that is definetely staring me down while I am in conversation with someone so I try to position myself to be somewhat with my back to the onlooker and do a small tilt towards the person to see if they are still looking and a wink and continue the conversation. This was never much of an option for me as I was usually the one looking at the girl I was attracted to, but now I pretty much ignore any pretty girl that walks by and I will usually see them in the halls during class break or leaving the university.

I cannot stress enough how much of a wasted opportunity it is to go straight home after a class, stick around, BS with any dood or female in your class and practice doing eye contact with people that walk by your group. A lesbian friend and I used to sit on the hallways and just say hi to anyone walking by, they usually smiled and thought it was funny that we were fighting over who would get the attention first and would eventually have a group of 3-4 other people join us... very good way to pick up a girl. Anyways I rambled off the topic....

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