(For the Mods feel free to move this, wasnt sure where to post)

Its been over a year since I discovered PUA and I belief this is the moment to share with everyone on here some of the methods and informations I have gathered which helped me improve to better myself.

NOTE THE METHODS MAY NOT WORK FOR SOME PEOPLE SO PLEASE APPROACH AND TRY WITH AN OPEN MIND!!

THE BEST METHOD I DISCOVERED TO GET RID OF AA FOREVER. I recently read about a method on how to get rid of the elephant in the living room, this method has taken me to the next level not just with women but with other areas of my life. The method is introduced by NLP(Neuro Linguistics Programming) called Meta-Programming, Meta-Programs are a way determine HOW you classify certain types of informations. The Meta-Program I will talk about is called Sameness/Differences.

This particular technique is not an on and off process. It is not like a light switch.
It is more like a volume dial on a radio. You will have to dial in your own comfort level.
What this does is give you the ability to turn down the resistance, or the fear, to a
level inside you that lets you talk to women without the fear. You can then
decide, as a master seducer, how to want to be around her without the fear in
the way.

WARNING!!: PLAY WITH THIS CAREFULLY BECAUSE IF YOU TURN IT ON TOO MUCH,
IT CAN ACTUALLY HAVE THE EFFECT OF TURNING YOU OFF TO BEAUTIFUL WOMAN YOU ARE LOOKING AT!

Just think about fear as if somebody took the roof off you house and dropped an
elephant into your living room. you would have to learn to live around that
elephant. You would have to design your life around the elephant in the room.
You would have to change all the furniture in the room.

Fear is like that elephant. You have changed so many things about how you act
around women based on your initial fear. This technique that you're about to
learn is like taking the elephant out of the room.

Think about how much easier it's got to be in your living room without the
elephant. Think about how much more pleasent it will be to be around beautiful
women with out fear.

There is something called Meta Programs in NLP. Meta-Programs are a way to
determine HOW you classify certain types of information. The Meta-Program
that we are talkign about is called sameness/difference.

Sameness/differences Routine:
Immagine that we have three different coins - 10 cent, 20 cent
and a 50 cent - and I asked you that what the relationship between these three items
was.

One group of people might say they're all money or they're all coins or they are
all metals or they are all circles.

Another group of people might see the same three coins and determine that
there is no relationship, as one is a 10 cent, the other is 20 cent, and the other is
50 cent. Or that they are all different sizes, or that they are all worth different
amounts, or that they are different colours.

The third group of people might say two are silver and one is copper, or they are
all coins but different denominations(value).

The first group sorts by SAMENESS - they are looking for the qualities in
the three items that make them the same. They're looking for similarities.

The second group is sorting information by how the three items are DIFFERENT
from one another. They see the DIFFERENCES.

The third group uses a combination of both. Most people fall into this third group.

The third group of people first saw the difference of the objects and then sees the
sameness. This makes them able to go from one end of the spectrum to the other. Some
people first see things are the same and then how they differ. So they might say, "well
they're all coins but these two are silver and that one is, copper".

Using Sameness to Get Rid of the Elephant:

Just think about what men call a Butch Lesbian(manly looking). I don't know
about you, but when I look at Butch lesbians that have their hair like men,
dress like men, talk like men, walk like men and act like men, my attraction
switch turns RIGHT off.

It is because she is exhibiting the qualities of manhood. She is trying to look and
be like a man. This is SAMENESS, and sameness in physical features turns most all men off. .

Now if I look at what they call a lipstick lesbian, which means a beautiful lesbian,
it has a different effect on me.

Now I want to create a scale in your mind with a Butch lesbian on one end and Lipstick lesbian on the other.
As you go up and down the scale, you will see how your attraction goes from completely turned off to completely turned on.
In between the ends of the spectrum, there is a mixture of a little or a lot of both going on. And if you play with that
mixture, you will find your own personal magic point of the comfort you want when personally dealing with beautiful women.

Now let's put a rating on your scale with Butch Lesbian as 1 and the Lipstick Lesbian as a 10. After looking at the scale,
you determine that your comfort level is about a 6. At the 6 level, you are still turned on and still comfortable with the
woman you see. the fear is not taking over at a 6.

The next step is to be able to have you feel like you are talking to a level 6 when, in fact, you are talking to a beautiful
level 10! we want your emotions and your state of mind to come from a level 6 while you're interacting and seducing a level-10 beauty.

And just how do you do that?
You ask yourself what is the relationship of a Butch lesbian and a Lipstick lesbian, from here list all the SAMENESS you can think of such as, they both have the desire women, they are both women, they are both being themselves etc (Break this down to the core). By doing this method you will move from one end of the scale to the other

This can also be applied on other areas of your life not just with women!

Now remember I said to be CAREFUL with this routine, because if you screw the scale up and look at a level 10 from the point of view
of a level 1, you could really hurt her feelings and not be attracted to beautiful women anymore. READ THAT AGAIN!!.

P.S UNLESS OF COURSE YOU BEGIN TO FOCUS HEAVILY AGAIN ON THE DIFFERENCES!

P.S.S I FIND THIS METHOD MORE EFFECTIVE WHEN I THINK OF THE SAMENESS JUST BEFORE BED WHEN MY MIND AND BODY IS IN A VERY RELAXED AND COMFORTABLE STATE

Using Differences to Get Rid of the Elephant:

Another method to get rid of the fear of beautiful women, besides looking for their
similarities to us, it to look for differences - not between them and us (those
are apparent and get us into the horny trouble we are in), but their individual
differences. This way, we won't lump all beautiful women together! So what we
are going to do now is classify women, not by their beauty, but by their
differences in personality, values and beliefs.

What this process does is that it gives you a kind of a buffer zone, a safe zone,
from your own feelings that can get you carried away. It creates an area inside of
you to begin to find out things about her.

Now when you look at her ask yourself these questions:

-Would I trust this girl with my bank account?
-Would I trust this girl in my apartment alone for a week, or a month?
-Would I introduce her to someone that I look up to, or care about?
-Would I introduce her to my parents, grandparents, family, or friends?
-If I go to church, would you take her to church, and introduce her to your
or priests, or the congregation? Or maybe even the nuns?
-Would you trust her to take care of your pets?(if you have any)

And if none of those work, try this one.

-Imagine the person you most love in this world has been magically turned
into a newborn baby. You have the responsibilty of that baby, knowing
who that baby really is. Would you leave that baby in this woman's hands
for any period of time?

When used properly, you begin to see how foolish you relly are to give any woman
thsoe qualities based on beauty alone.

When you use either the sameness technique or the differences technique, or
both, you are creating a gap for yourself which allows you to have a more open mind.

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