http://inoveryourhead.net/the-complete- ... ng-a-fuck/

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I would give money to buy it if it where a book,not finished reading though,but i like it!

I like it too. I really strive to put some of the things he talks about into practice. I remember, once I was on a verge of a nervous breakdown, everything just accumulated inside me because I was trying too hard to please everybody around me. At one point, I just broke, but not in a bad way, it was all too much for me and I said to myself I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. That was the best moment ever, I had a huge sense of relief and joy instantaneously. And I was happy from that moment on, for a good while at least I haven't experienced anything similar since, but just thinking about not giving a fuck brings a smile to my face. I have to start acting on it. Some fears are so pointless and letting those go is really liberating. Good article.

good.

just don't develop apathy and/or arrogance in your quest of not giving a fuck

I think apathy for me would be a greater danger than arrogance. I just want to achieve the state when I can always say NO to anything I don't really want to do and not give a fuck what the others think about it. Or just do what I always wanted to do and not care what others think of it. The fear of what others will say is really ridiculous when you think about it. Holding on to my empathy for other human beings while "not giving a fuck" is really my goal and I think it's a good balance.

The problem is people not caring about the right things.

Again, where the hell did everyones sense of moderation go?

So you do give a fuck?

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