approaching on the dance floor. if its in a quieter environment then not a problem . i go direct and progress into a conversation but if i cant talk i struggle. to be more specific its when a girl is in front of me on the dance floor but i have to move a distance to reach her. how should i approach this ?

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Hey,

Dancefloor game is basicly moving the attraction. In other words - you have to be able to make her come to you. You can do this on several - even though - don't go to her. I rarely do this.

If you do - however- want to make the move to go in. I just suggest acting like matrix-bullet scene. Move slowly, confident, smile & head up. Don't go in too fast, be sure that you are strongheaded and move with a slow paste. I used to recreate the scene, in other words, I acted like the bullets were flying around me.. this makes it playful but still lets her know that you wish to get to her.

If you however do not want to make a move, just point - straight arm, turn your hand and make the gesture "come here" with one finger.. then hang your head slight off to a side while smiling.

Good luck,

≠ LD

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cheers for the reply mate , yeah i figured as much.

i guess the main thing is for me to just nut up and make a move .

there just so damn intimidating in there circles lol

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No problem Smooth.

You got a problem with outcome. You care too much about the result of what you are doing or something. The more less-caring you be, the more effect it will have.

≠ LD

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I'd like to add if I may that it helps a great deal if you are already dancing, to the beat and with co-ordination. This makes it easier for you to just dance on over in the manner that LD said, the approach becomes part of the dance and it's fluid and natural looking.
Seeing as though most AFC guys seem to be pretty unco when it comes to dancing, the guys who have even just a little more rhythm and co-ordination tend to stand out from the crowd.

I like what LD said about waving them over to you rather than you moving to them as it seems more Alpha to me. I used both techniques last night with varying degrees of success.