Hello all,

Some of you might know, some of you might not now, I'm LyricalDream. Founder of Dance2Seduce and dancefloor coach for a few months now. Actually, I've been adding up some basic strategies and some basic thinking in combination with basic dancefloor moves to completely a basic guide to dancefloor game. Wether or not this is succesful is something to be debated about. I teach this basic principles to my students and it hasn't failed much so far. Of course, I'm only in my beginning stage aswel.

Okay - let's talk about dancefloor game a bit first. Dancefloor game is something that you cannot just do, it is something that you must feel. Why? Because dance is an expression. It's like when you are a painter - you just don't blatter strokes on the painting with no sense, you blatter them on the painting with how you feel with the combination of the strokes. It's the same with dancing, you need to feel the music, listen to it, interpret it and eventually.. dance to it.

Many of the students ask then - but How? I don't have a feel for rythm or I don't know how to dance. Well it's simple - it's not how you dance - it's how you come accross. I've seen guys do the stupidest moves and get the hottest chicks. Like I said before - it's only how you express yourself that matters. You can be an ugly guy with the hottest dance moves and pull the hottest chicks just because you like to dance. It's not hard!

"Okay.. shit.. but how? Teach me!
How many times I have heard this before.. I believe writing about about that one sentence is possible. Nevertheless - let's deepen into the topic "Seduction. and Dance." Seduction is merely another word for being comfortable. In a way - when you talk with a friend - you are "seducing" that friend too. You talk with that person on a comfortable level, about something that goes in a question game. You ask about A - he answers with B.. you go on about B... and so forth.

Well - doesn't that sound a lot like Pick up?
--> Yeah it does!
Wait.. but why do I have so much problems with it?
--> Because you don't treat the girls like "people".. you treat them like gods. You don't treat yourself as a god either.

Okay - many in here will debate my choice of words. But what I am trying to say - the more you feel uncomfortable with yourself. The more the girl will notice and feel uncomfortable aswell. This is called mirroring.

But wait, .. so I just need to act like I'm 'seducing' a friend when picking up a girl?
--> That's right.. she isn't any more important then your friend. And she doesn't know you, so don't feel neglected if she refuses you. She's just another human being.

Okay - now we got the both sections covered. Let's talk about basic principles of dancefloor game.

1. Enjoy yourself - not her
Okay - this is a really important factor. Girls don't value a guy that is doing it all for her. They want a guy that is enjoying the evening for himself. Do you want a girl to do everything for you without enjoying it for herself? No, you don't.. of course, you're a man.

2. Don't be afraid to act crazy
In other words, the more crazy your moves will be.. the more you will get noticed and the more fun you will radiate. A perfect example is my "shower move."

When I'm dancing I have a move that I call the shower move.. it's just purely for self-amusement. What I do is I pretend that I'm in a shower, washing the inner side of my arms.. so it's a really funny move. It ALWAYS gets girls laughing because you do it for yourself.

3. They are there for you!
A girl goes out.. she dresses up, puts on make-up. You expect her to blow you off.. NO why would she? She dressed herself up for that evening, she wants to have a good time. She wants to MEET YOU. Don't feel afraid - they are craving for your attention. Show it & give it to her.

4. Dance is an emotion
Show this.. let yourself life the moment, the music. You will get noticed because you enjoy it. Enjoy it compeltely, with your body, your mind & your soul.

Now go out there & dance!

≠ LD

PS: Some more points will be added![/i]

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