"Ladies is pimps too, go on brush ya shoulders off" - Jay Z

How can I screen quickly for a female player, cuz I've just been played! I'm glad I found out though, cuz I had oneitis from this player, but it's gone now. She was a HB8, good looking... and I thought had an amazing playful personality... but I'm sure a lot of other guys think the same thing.

Anyways, the only thing I can think of to screen for a female player is how outgoing she is... slash her confidence. This girl never seems to get nervous, and is outgoing and says things without hesitating. Fuck, I should've known! But it's all good now tho.

It would help to know how she played you. And also, what is your definition of a Female Player? I ask because there really is no such thing as a female player. Theres only hustlers and hoes. Both those catagories have very different mentalities and behavior patterns.

I agree with SilentKiller....there is another category which he is calling female players..but Vin DiCarlo calls them "Playettes"
But dude plz add some details..!!

Female hustlers are pretty easy to spot out. She was the chick in high school that didn't date dudes her age. You know the type: 18 years old with a 25 year old boyfriend. They carry on this trend into their adulthood. Physically, they generally have a very conservative, yet sexy look. They are also very health conscious and exercise regularly. They are very logical, and tend to seek higher education. Their strength lies in their conversation skills, which is their main method of manipulating guys. HB7s make the best hustlers in my opinion.

Hoes are...well, hoes. lol. They rely heavily on their bodies to grab attention from guys. Cleavage, short skirts, gaudy makeup, glitter, etc. However, as they get into their mid-twenties, they tend to dress more conservative like the hustlers. They are very emotionally volatile. They typically have lots of mood swings, are very unreliable, late for appointments and seem to always be busy when you want to get a hold of them. They use unstable behavior and unreliability as their main method of manipulating men.

here are my signs to look for :

1. does not talk very much
2. does not show very much emotion and is logical
3. does not have a lot of female friends
4. dresses conservatively in terms of showing skin, although she may be stylish
5. has a lot of orbiters

Alright here are the details...

There's this chick right... was my HS sweetheart. I was pussy whipped like no other... Now I got oneitis but it's not nearly as bad. Anyways, I'm pretty sure she flirts the same way with other men. She has a lot of dudes... and I don't know how a girls brain works... but if a guy has a lot of women... he quite frankly doesn't give a shit. If worse case scenario happens, it's all w/e... on to the next one... I'm sure her mindset is something like this too... Mind should be like this as well... but I don't got chicks on deck.

Anyways, yeah she's very outgoing n flirty... if you push too much she'll be like wtf... But little does she no I read MM!!! Omg!!! I pull first n I know her sweet ass likes it. Hopefully I can finally dig up inside her... TONIGHT!!!

I would actually say that player is quite friendly, and flirty. A lot of casual touching Gives you tonn of IOIs but won't let you escalate sexually. Wants to take things slow.

I know one girl like that, she got I-phone from "just a friend" and has another "friend" pick her up every time on his 100gran car. But won't take it anywhere.

At first I thought I am so amazing, when I got all these IOIs and kino, but then I saw the same thing happen with other guys.

LOL shit happens.

yeah the female player will use you for validation, she has a playful attitude with every guy, seems to have more male friends than female, has great social skills, and is very very very confident.

my favorite lay is when i SNL a playette cuz i feel like i beat them at their own game.

the only way to lay them is build sexual tension but play hard to get.

I'm a fan of "female players" myself. Loads of sexual tension, they keep you on your game, and are generally quite wild in the sack. And what's more fun than great sex after you just outgamed a girl with an ego as big as yours? My favorite method, really early on, brag about how much better you are in the sack than she is.

Well, I was not getting any IOI's from her. She would not walk by my side... Not laugh at my jokes... hardly initiate conversation... tonight was gay ladies n gentlemen. W/e I'ma tell her straight up. Been a female friend in HS... now she knows I've changed... n if she still wants me to be that "female friend"... forget that jazz! Flirt verbally, will kino me but will not let me kino her, in a flirty way. Yeahhh... gayyy So if you wanna fuck, lets fuck. But if not, I'ma stop wasting time.

I was with her for too long it seemed like. When I first came in to meet her, I came in with 3 girls... just friendly chit chat... She kinda gave me a bad vibe from the beginning.... then it got a lil better later, then bad again.

EDIT: It's weird, cuz when I saw her a few days before... I was gettin' mad IOI's... She was forced to leave, n I was like damn. I really felt if I had her a bit longer... I coulda got somewhere. This time... not so much... Not as many IOI's... etc

Based on the definitions I`ve read so far, you guys are describing what I call a flirt, a dick teaser or, the more popular phrase "attention whore". I usually associate the word player with a verbal skill. I personally would not put these women in that catagory. I mean, how hard is it to put on a pushup bra and heels, go to a club and tease? If her actions aren`t producing tangibles (money, cars, a house, a wedding ring, etc), she`ll really playing herself.

yes this is definitely far different than "attention whore", because they don't bounce around doing body shots and crap for attention, which can be annoying but is harmless.

The validation female players want is not stares, but getting guys hooked on them. If you have ever run into one, you will know it and remember it afterward. I learned my lesson.

Hmm... yeah she doesn't get house cars etc... I'm sure she has guys paying for her stuff though. She is a flirt. I'ma just forget about this chick. She fucks guys every now and then, when we text n shit... I give her hints to fucking n she doesn't say no... She was teasin me yesterday, via text, to come hang out with her. And when I say teasing, I mean she acted like we were gonna fuck. Nothing happened that night. She seems like a big flirt over text, so she can get a guy to come hang out... but when he does, it's like so what.

Yea I tried to switch up the script, and made her validate herself to me. I told her that I didn't wanna fuck unless if she's like x, not all moody like y. She seems confused right now. I'm just pushing/pulling to the limit... fuck her mentally before physically lol