This is a tough, but important question.

Yes, she has to be HOT... to me. This is good to know. Are you out to impress your friends with some arm candy, or do you want a girl that is hot to YOU?

Brains are important too. When my zombie instincts kick in and I'm hungry for brains, I need to know that I have a girl with delicious gray matter. (Ok, I'm just being silly) Seriously though, I like a girl with brains and ambition. Most of us want a girl we can talk to and stay interested in at least until we shoot our money wad and roll over to sleep.

Tits. She's gotta have tits. Oh wait, that's just part of being a girl I guess. Even the A cup beauties have something going for them. What the heck am I rambling on about this for? What I'm trying to illustrate is, you need to have a game plan about what kind of girl you want.

If you want a ONS, you probably don't want a girl that you have to introduce to your mom and dad. On the other hand, many of us are looking for LTRs, so you may want to look for a girl that is a lil less slutty and more loyal/honest than the "wham, bam, thank you maam" relationship if you want to have a girl around for more than one or two rounds.

I keep a PUA journal of many of my conquests and notes from my learnings. This is nice to have when I need to give myself a boost of confidence and also helps me learn from my past mistakes. I highly encourage you to write pick-up reports on the forums and to yourself in a journal, blog, notebook, etc...

What I may suggest to you guys out there is to mentally list the qualities you want in a girl and/or write them down. This will keep you from going for the wrong "type" of girl when it comes to sarging. If you like em hot and dumb, go for it. Kinky and nerdy is your type? Get 'er done! Most importantly, have fun.

-Chicoman

Me, with tits.




And you know, the rest of the girl stuff.

But pretty much like me. You all know she'd be awesome.

1. has got to have something going for herself
2. positive attitude
3. recognizable as human being. i.e. not fat/misformed. physical attractiveness is a plus.