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That's what I do. I don't go out to sarge.
I just go with my life and meet girls along the way.
I think a much better approach then going out to sarge is to HAVE A LIFE. Guys outside the community get laid all the time by having a life. They get laid by girls at university, at jobs, at friends' parties, at concerts, etc.
This is what guys outside the community are doing to get laid:
1) Go to the gym. You want a hot girl? Become hot.
2) Dress well. Take care of yourself.
3) Get a good body language and voice tonality/tempo.
4) Do something in your life. Study. Have a job. Play the guitar. Have a hobby.
5) Be social and go out every chance you get.
6) When a girl likes you don't chode out or be a introvert loser. ESCALATE!
Yep, participate in life, everywhere in life.
I agree strongly with both these postings as well the opening post. When the outside world tells people to "just be yourself" this is exactly what they are saying. Participate in life and let life happen. Many people are able to just naturally do this and don't get what the big deal is. Many others need to learn to do it.
Don't make sarging or pick up as an "event" or a task. Make looking fit, groomed and sharp as a daily habit. As you go through life, look people in the eye, smile and talk to them - all of them! Men, women, hotties, uglies everyone. do fun things and enjoy those things. Invite people to join you in those things.
Flirt, tease, banter, joke....again with everyone. Learn to read people and try to understand what they are feeling and thinking. When an attractive female gives you IOIs, ESCALATE, MOVE FORWARD!!!!!
Most will fade away in time but many will not and one may stick around for a lifetime.