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PostPosted: Wed Jan 26, 2011 4:32 am 
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I don't know what you think of him, but today I realized something very important, and guess what, I just read few paragraphs from gunwitch and found this"

"In ANY relationship a good method to avoid pain, mess, and eventual heartbreak is to ALWAYS look at how you are being treated and how the relationship makes you feel. NOT at what you feel for them."

This is just GOLD IMHO.What do guys feel when they have unshared oneitis? Pain, loneliness, desperation...nothing good. In contrast when in a healthy relationship you feel happiness(unless you're dumbass). If happy relationship turns into one-itis:

" It is far better to resist at the beginning than at the end" – somebody clever.

Just to help you guys out since one0itis is such a pain in the has and happens even to the best of us.


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This is nothing new. It has been posted on fast seduction player guide too:
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It happens ever too often. You're with a girl and she SAYS she's gonna have to go home. Once you reach her house, she doesn't seem to have the slightest of intention of leaving you. In silent agreement you move on to "take a loot at" your house:) Or she SAYS she doesn't sleep with a guy on the first night, or she SAYS it is too soon etc etc. Now these were all positive examples of what she SAYS is necessarily not what she wants or eventually DOES:) But nothing to complain about, right?:)

Wrong. Because the opposite is quite common as well - although she promises this and that, makes excuses, is sorry ("Oh, I'll call you", "Oh, I was soo busy, I just didn't have any time!", "I lost your number, what was it?", "We'll do it next Tuesday, I promise!" etc) but NEVER delivers - which can leave an AFC hanging on and hoping 'til retirement and then some.

In the words of Ross Jeffries: "WATCH WHAT YOUR PROSPECTS DO AND NOT WHAT THEY SAY!! Especially with women who are excellent excuse makers and bamboozlers. The ONLY real key to a prospect being qualified is THE ACTION SHE TAKES! ALWAYS LOOK FIRST AND FOREMOST AT HOW A WOMAN IS TREATING YOU AND IF YOU ARE BEING TREATED WITH PRIORITY AND RESPECT. ONLY THEN LOOK AT THE CHARACTERISTICS AND QUALITIES YOU LIKE IN THAT WOMAN!

One of the primary differences between "jerks" and "nice guys" is what they focus on. The jerk is first and foremost focused on how he is being treated and each move he makes is put through the test: "will this increase or decrease the priority she gives me?". If the answer is decrease... THE JERK DOESN'T DO IT!!! Nice guys (chronic masturbators) by way of contrast, focus on the characteristics they like in the girl. They ignore or overlook rude behaviour from her. They act to show their appreciation and interest in her rather than to get respect which is why, like Rodney Dangerfield... THEY DON'T GET ANY!!!"
http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/05_H ... ions.shtml

PS: This guide is old, but it's so awesome. I always use it as reference.

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Although I'm fluent in English its my 3rd language-so I don't quite get what you're saying.

P.S. I couldn't get on Gunwithch's website for a while.


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Why is one-itis such a bad thing guys? Just wondering. We gain our greatest strengths through our greatest pains.

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@ poeticlyskuac

Because developing oneitis destroys your chances of getting into relationship(otr just getting laid) and if you're in relationship it can destroy it. Just don't confuse oneitis and love. Oneitis is when you care for her for no reason, although she acts like a bitch to you., whe you're suffering for no reason and there is no happiness. Oneitis- are caused by neediness, and they only get worse, as you keep concentrating on them.

Now love is happiness, although sometimes some external factors might make you unhappy(e.g death, disease or something else) when you remember of person you lovve, you become happy, energised, and love loves you back. Love leads to happines oneitis lead to misery.


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Just to add to Mind Hacker's post, imaging your oneitis getting fucked also helps. When you have oneitis, you have 0 sexual desire for the girl, and 100% female affection. Once you bring that sexual desire back, like you had when you first met her, it definitely helps with oneitis.


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Just to add to Mind Hacker's post, imaging your oneitis getting fucked also helps. When you have oneitis, you have 0 sexual desire for the girl, and 100% female affection. Once you bring that sexual desire back, like you had when you first met her, it definitely helps with oneitis.
someone read some 60yoc :P

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Just to add to Mind Hacker's post, imaging your oneitis getting fucked also helps. When you have oneitis, you have 0 sexual desire for the girl, and 100% female affection. Once you bring that sexual desire back, like you had when you first met her, it definitely helps with oneitis.
someone read some 60yoc :P
;) I am 60


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Just to add to Mind Hacker's post, imaging your oneitis getting fucked also helps. When you have oneitis, you have 0 sexual desire for the girl, and 100% female affection. Once you bring that sexual desire back, like you had when you first met her, it definitely helps with oneitis.
someone read some 60yoc :P
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Im not sure if your simply joking, or if your trying to say that your game resembles 60 a lot, or if your actually trying to say you are 60yearsofchallenge.

Either way, it must be the first two because i'm sure your not crazy enough to try and imitate a person who has a registered account here. :P

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someone read some 60yoc :P
;) I am 60
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Im not sure if your simply joking, or if your trying to say that your game resembles 60 a lot, or if your actually trying to say you are 60yearsofchallenge.

Either way, it must be the first two because i'm sure your not crazy enough to try and imitate a person who has a registered account here. :P
Lol obviously I'm not 60YOC. It was a joke


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Just to add to Mind Hacker's post, imaging your oneitis getting fucked also helps. When you have oneitis, you have 0 sexual desire for the girl, and 100% female affection. Once you bring that sexual desire back, like you had when you first met her, it definitely helps with oneitis.
true.

The one I described above is more about understanding when relationship is going bad rather than losing interest to particular girl. That's usually enough for me to forget (or at least get over) the girl.


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