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| $uave | PostPosted: Mon Jan 24, 2011 11:45 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Fri Oct 15, 2010 4:42 am Posts: 643 | | Yes I know that I just wrote the post on usage of DLVs and writing so much makes me look like a KJ-trust me I'm not. If I say I tried it-I mean it. If something seems useful to me but I haven't tried it yet, I say it the way it is...
anyways coming back to the topic
I usually try to keep the convos fun, casual, with a sexual vibe and it works great.
Once when I was with a girl, I mistakenly pressed on a sensitive topic...pets...she remembered her dead pet and started crying a bit...I was pretty confused...I cheered her up and we continued our fun topics. Ironically, this girl fell for me...pretty badly.
Now get this...I don't say that making girls cry is a good thing. What I say is I believe, that just having fun+sexual convo straight up for a few hours can be a little too much. Yes we do want to be associated with FUN and SEXY, but this can get even stronger If we mix it up a little.
Here is what I'm suggesting.
When starting day 2-keeping it fun and flirty, when you go to flirty-comfort building(e.g. games)-of course after you had a lot of light convo and preferably kino, put in a little bit sadness, and then after living that little moment of sadness with her come back to fun. This seems good to me. I believe, you will be associated with everything as in a usual scenario, but by, going through these ups and downs will multiply your effect. Of course, downs must be reasonable (you don't want to talk about how half of her family died in a hurracaine). And the key in my opinion is to START AND END at the fun note.
Waiting for comments of a more experienced colleagues.
And of course...try it and tell me how it worked for you!!!
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| Le Loup | PostPosted: Tue Jan 25, 2011 12:03 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Oct 22, 2010 1:59 pm Posts: 147 Location: Melbourne, Australia | | I agree and this is usually what I do, generally cuz I run out of sexy material to talk about for 3 hours straight. At some point you have to progress to just normal conversation. I dont purposely make girls cry, I try to direct converation to emotional topics, regardless of whether they are positive or negative emotions since stuff like "where do u live? What do you do? etc" is boring.
I cant remember who but someone said that you need to make girls experience the full range of emotions and not just fun or horny as this gets boring fast.
I generally find that having a normal but kinda deep (dont go too deep) conversation with a girl while mixing in occasional flirting and sex related comments works the best.
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