First off, I wanna point out how much it sucks to go out to the bars/clubs in Pittsburgh now, as it has been freezing for the last month...damn.

Griping aside, I figured I would ask here how to work with a wingman who has an incredibly different style than you. See, I'm in college, and a friend of mine turned 21 recently so we've been able to go out several times to hot spots in the city with the same group. Now both of us will sometimes go out to meet women, but the way we go about a night barhopping are nearly opposite.

Me? Generally I have a couple of drinks because it does help me with the AA I do experience sometimes, but then I'll approach a girl at the bar and strike up conversation. I'm a good conversation, if I do say so myself. My buddy has the benefit of having a lot more rhythm (yeah, he's black and I'm white), so he will usually go dance and start things up there. When it comes to talking to girls, I am generally laid back and escalate at a slower pace at the beginning, but he is a lot quicker and will try to close a deal as if he was going for a world record.

The problem is that neither of us is particularly good at working in the other one's style, and so we aren't really able to help eachother out in terms of winging. Our comfortable environments, paces, it actually gets kind of annoying. If I knew a way to mesh things together I think I could help him out a lot and vice versa, but I'm just not sure how to do it.

For instance, last time it was only us at a bar and I was able to start flirting with a girl there who had a friend, now I was bouncing back and forth between both girls but it was pretty clear one was far more into me. My buddy wasn't able to help much because his game is much more physical and he just couldn't function the same way sitting at a table in a bar.

I'm used to working solo, so I know part of it is just that I have to learn to adjust myself. Sometimes I gotta be uncomfortable and try doing things his way, who knows I may enjoy myself even more. At the same time, I wonder if there is any material that deals with this kinda situation that may give me some tips on how to adjust my style when the situation calls for it or how to help him out when we aren't at a club with a dance floor for him to show off a bit and start things off with a girl.