O.k.

I've been seeing a HB 9 for a little while now and we have maybe 3 hangouts.
I'm not sure if anything is wrong, but we had a great first date and an excellent second date which led to oral sex and alot of fooling about which she labelled as being "amazing".

On the way back to hers, she assures me that she isn't a slut,

To which I respond, do you think I am?...

I met her again but was off form and quite tired, we had fun but we were too far away from mine to escalate and she loves with her parents, so I thought what the hell there is always next time..
I've made a couple of attempts to meet her since, but with Xmas and other things it just hasn't happened.

What I've noticed over the last week is that she isn't ending her messages with x anymore and also I am instigating all the texting/ ringing (but that has always been the case).

so it is plain to see that she is cooling off me.

Not the biggest problem in the world I'm sure,

I went out on wednesday night and shagged a HB8 for hours thinking that would get it out of me, but,
I think I want to carry on.

I guess what it comes down to is that I'm great at one night stands, but when it comes to relationships I lose track and my mind (seemingly).

As a result I have a mountain of questions/ doubts which are unbecoming of a patewan pua:

Is this all part of some sort of complicated web of ASD?

Should I stop texting/ ringing, until she caves?

Should I potentially upgrade these hangouts to dates i.e. dinner romance or is the casual way the future?

I'm so frustrated..

.. and I know these are the ones you have to watch

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