here is my story.

first off, i am no pua, i am a RAFC, but i've been reading and learning. i'm not in any real big hurry to apply this stuff because i just got out of a bad relationship (caused by my AFC'ness) after a bad longterm relationship (caused by my AFC'ness). but i do want to learn, not so much to pick up girls, but how to better present myself and have the social skills should i choose to do so. y'know?

anyway, i wish this was a story about me picking up some uber-hot HB10 and indulging in a night of debauchery. but it's not.

instead, it's the story of a guy who would classify himself as good-looking and in shape with a decent income, but who is painfully shy and socially inept. this chronicles one interaction. literally, my first attempt at applying any of the techniques discussed on this site.

so, a couple weeks back after i began to read in earnest on this website, i went into this gas station on the way to work where i usually stop in to get a coffee. the girl working is a HB9 easily. i approach the counter thinking (be confident), she doesn't make eye contact (she is acting busy), i don't wait and i immediately engage her in friendly conversation (three second rule), she kind of gives me the cold shoulder (bitch shield?), haha i am undeterred and carry on with my conversation, smiling and making lots of eye contact, even leaning in closer on the counter and "focusing" on her, y'know? then something happens, there seems to be a switch in her energy, and she starts talking with me, i'm like "hey, i've gotta run. it was REALLY cool talking with you." she waves and says bye.

so, i walk out, like ... OH MY GAWWWEEED ... wtf just happened. because i don't approach women. never have. i end up fucking the crazy ones that hunt me down.

anyway, here is the thing. like i said. i was not attempting to pick this girl up. instead, i was attempting to use a few of the techniques i had read about here and kind of run a real basic field test for beginners. i was pretty shocked at the results.

so, this was weeks ago. and all i did was talk to the girl, y'know?

so, i go back in there yesterday, and she is working. she immediately makes eye contact with me, and i immediately make it right back, and wave, then i go get my stuff i'm gonna buy and head to the counter. there are two lanes. i'm like ten feet away and she goes "i can help you HERE". (haha). alright then. so i go over to her aisle, and this was actually hilarious to me...in her best phone sex operator voice she goes "heeeeyyyyyyyyy". i almost laughed (which would have been a seriously bad move, but i almost did). however, the thought of potentially wetting my willy in this HB9 drove all thoughts of laughing immediately from my head.

we chatted for a minute. i was friendly, but cool, as i am not attempting to pick this girl up, y'know, it was just a field test.

there was no bitch shield this time, body language was titties pointing at me the entire time, standing right close to the counter, chatting me up. i took off and she legitimately seemed disappointed. i think i actually got the doggie dinner bowl look and she was like "well.....bye".

haha, wtf. am i going to have to pick up and nail this girl now? to finish what i've started... i don't want to (sarcasm), but i may have to take one for the team, idk.

i just wanted to post this for any RAFC's out there, i know for you pua's and mpua's this probably wasn't a good read, but for a guy like me who just doesn't get this sort of reactions from the opposite sex, this was absolutely an amazing interaction.

this ... shit ... works.

Well done mate!

I remember when I first started being able to get reactions out of women, when before I'd never had the balls to talk to them. The feeling of having that kind of POWER and INFLUENCE was amazing! I felt like a real MAN.

I know it was your first attempt, but next time, just interact in the same way, and when you get the sense that she's into you (she obviously was!) say "hey listen, I know you're working now, but let's exchange contact info and get to know each other better over a drink later this week." That makes it clear you want a DATE, but it's said in a confident, casual manner. Try it out with her next time you're there.

I like your attitude. Don't come here to be a PUA - come here to help yourself be more social in general, and the results will come, I guarantee it.

STAY AWAY FROM THE "ROUTINES" SECTION!

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Good work mate.

Two key things you should learn from this experience:

1. This will come through more field experience, but eventually you will realise the exact point at which you can close a girl, at any time. For example when I walk up to a girl, I can usually tell with a 95% certainty whether I'll get her number, and probably whether I'll fuck her too (though with considerably less certainty).

The reason I say this is because you could have got her number the instant you started talking to her for the second time. When she is ready to close, it might sound weird, but you are doing her a favour by closing her. If you don't, there is a chance you will be put in to the 'pervert' or 'creep' category, among other things. So make sure you close. If in doubt, go for it!

2. Fractionation. It's weird but time fractionations like this are a massive turn on for girls. For some reason if you sarge a girl, then come back to her a few days later, all her bitch shield will drop and she'll be totally into you. Of course it won't always perfectly work out that way, but it's a phenomenon I've talked to a lot of PUAs about and it fucking works.

One final thing I'll add. If you're still not sure when to close, it's probably because you're not being direct enough about your intentions. At the end of the day you want to fuck her, so don't be afraid to throw in a few compliments to gauge her interest. After all, you have to show you are interested at some point if you expect her to think you're interested enough for her to invest her time and body in you .

All the best.
And you better fucking close her next time x

great responses, guys.

idk, i am purposely avoiding girls because my head is twisted right now. i just bought a few books on inner game type stuff. i've got to get my head screwed on right before dragging any female into my insanity.

i have two options.

avoid the gas station!

or...

go back and pick up this HB9.

damn. what's a guy to do?

i wasn't prepared for the intensity of her response. i thought i might get a shy sort of smile out of her, not full on phone sex voice. zomg.

way to go, that should be the mind set all the time when you go out or at the very least the appearance. you are just someone going about their daily business you aren't actively seeking out women but when an opportunity arises you take control of the situation with your training.

i think most guys use PUA forum to help them in social situations, to analyze whats happening. Sure there are guys that are going for the sex closes, but at the same time you have people that just want to make their game leaner (like myself) or people that just want to be able to socialize. Thats whats so great about this forum it encompasses a wide variety of people and situations.

Don't be so harsh on yourself, and stop making excuses like a pussy. This has nothing to do with your head being twisted.

It has everything to do with fear of success - which is just a tangible a challenge as fear of failure.

As I said, don't be so harsh on yourself - I just got on a bus on the way home and eyefucked this really cute brunette. Then I opened my mouth slowly as if I was drooling. She did the same.

But then I pussied out and sat upstairs instead of next to her and her friends. I decided I was going to close her by going down a few stops early and asking for her number and stuff.

Then she left before I did. As she left I saw her look up at me in a yearning way. This situation is not dissimilar to yours - only you have the chance to make up for your mistake - I don't.

So, you and I both know that there's a part of you, that will always wonder...

always wonder...what if? What would happen if?

And i bet you can imagine a situation where everything went perfectly with this girl and you soaked your hard cock in her pussy...

...of course it's unlikely to go perfectly like that, right? But you will never know, unless you

go
for
it.

Why die wondering?