The fxck it response , I don't give a shit reaction and the Im not arsed retaliation


The Fxck It response :- This is a response that everyone should nurture in all aspects of their life they need it to push forwards to learn not to give a shit about what happens and just go with the fxck it response . Let me elaborate

Im into Dirt Jumping . When I see a huge jump what use to run through my mind was " If I hit this jump at this speed at this angle and with my body in this position Im probably going to fall and die ( Thats called over thinking a lot of us are guilty of it , I defiantly am) with the fxck it response I see the jump and instead of over thinking it I just think " Fxck it" and actually do it without a care of what the outcome may be and yanno what my outcomes are usually positive.

The I dont give a shit reaction : Using the same example of Dirt Jumping Lets say I mess up my Jump and fall and make a complete fool off myself my first reaction is to say "I dont give a shit" pick my self up and dust my self off and move on.

The Im not arsed response ( I dont know if this term is just a regional term for my country but what it means is you couldnt give a care in the world about what the other person is saying) Example of dirt Jumping again I fall over people laugh my initial response " Not arsed" and move on

Where these responses fit into the world of pick up . You see a girl your thoughts are fxck it , you actually approach her knowing that if you fail and your friends or people take the piss out of you , you can confidently say " I dont give a shit" and move on . Also knowing that if your target is mean and critical you can retort with "Im not arsed"

These three terms should be used and practiced in everyday life . You see something you want you go for it with the fxck it response knowing that if that fails you can act like you don't give a shit.

This will give you more opportunity in life , If you just practice that sequence .

You should set yourself targets and practice the fxck it response .... Its Brilliant for building up tolerance for emotional pain ( gay yes I know )

you can act like you don't give a shit,but how can you really don't give a shit about that?WHat to do if social conditioning kicks in?

don't give a shit. just dont, condition yourself not to. Its an attractive quality and if you tear down a lot of this material, a lot of it stems from "not giving a shit".

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It's a M.O.B. thing like none other. You just got to place yourself in the world of them. If they don't respond to you, they are not interested. So what, there are like 9billion other people in the world, I'm sure some of 'em will respond to your question or opener.

Look, it's what like Pook said: “You are the Great Catch.” & “As you think, you shall become.” It's not the girls that have the upperhand, it's you. It's not about the girls in the first place either. It's you that the story is about. You define what is & what not. It's all simple Mind over Body!

≠ LD

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Which rules are you then talking about? & Besides, how do you mean with breaking it? The mindsets the author has described are good in a way, but they are not to be overdone ofc, but that is with everything.

Or do you mean something else Hobbit?

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My thread is working.

And yeah, guys these rules are horrible over extensions of rules initially designed to make new guys forget about the possibility of crash and burn style rejections.

You have to be abe to ignore SOME things, but that doesn't mean you dettatch and go "I don't give a fuck".

Think it through.

There should NEVER EVER EVER be rules for PU - only guidelines.

Agrees with Madals. Knowing the fact that guidelines are just techniques, tips & trics to help you advance in everything. In the end you are the one that has to make it happen, these routines or trics are just a study aid for you..

It's like studying.. you don't go copying somebody's complete study method just for the sake it works really good with that person. No, you make your own study method and progress in it, it'll work for you because it is on your rules.

It's the same with PU. You read guidelines, you adjust them to your nature. And you progress on your level.

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"It's her fault for rejecting me; she doesn't know what she's missing out on. I don't give a fuck - I am a champ!"

I am getting very angry at all these fucking rules.

Rules are for breaking. Plain and simple.

Most people that follow rules are sad cunts that end up with a boring wife, boring job and a boring car.
BORING.................

THINGS ARE GETTING SO BAD IN SOCIETY THAT ALL PEOPLE DO IS FOLLOW RULES.

Fin has made a very good point of late.

Don't set yourself up as an advice guru.

I have been pulling the ladies for 20 years. What do i know NOTHING.
That is the general thinking behind all the young people i know.
My success boils down to be a GREAT GUY.
I lead by example. Not by being a fucking guru telling young people they have to follow my rules etc.

The fuck it attitude.

This is total bollocks.
My reasons.

If you did'nt give a shit about anything you would dress in your worst cloths and not bother peacocking or even washing.
Ask every girl out knowing you will get blown off and then its all over.

Of course you care.
You would not be on this fucking web site if you did not care.

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Its getting Hot out there.

Its all to easy.

I want to be a tree!

I think a better thinking would be:

"Don't care about what doesn't matter, do care about what does matter".

I appreciate your reply's and all but considering this is my post im going to defend it like a bitch

Right alot of this stuff wont appeal to the more "experienced " members due to the fact that youve had the experience and youve pushed through and succeeded in many cases

This thread is aimed at those on general or how to build a successful lifestyle or sticking points, beecause lets face it at one point we have reached a place where we cant push forwards anymore and have became stuck

You see these guys asking how should I get her number ? How should I ask for a raise or a promotion .

The sooner they learn to not give a fxck and actually do something about it the better . Because whatever the outcome their in a better place because They Decided to do something about it and go for it .

The typical mindset of a guy who wants something but cant have it is to over think things wayyyyyy too much , the next thing is to think off all the things that can go wrong and solutions to all of these problems that might occur. And well Ive sort of helped that 1. Dont give a fxck and actually do it 2. Dont give a shit about the outcome ( ok their the same thing but whatever)

Granted this is one of those situations were its easier to say it than do it but applying this to everyday situations will help people to push forward and get more opportunities in their life


Oh and if they're has been any confusion about this post . No I am not looking to become a guru , my ego isn't big enough for that yet and 2 im not trying to set rules Im trying to set mindsets .


One last thing , give me a detailed example of when it wouldn't work and i will shut the hell up , but till then ...

^^that.

I don't really care about the rules thing.