Guys,are some women serial-dick teasers or solely flirts?

This has been a puzzlement for me over ages:some women seem to just flirt & tease without any intentions on furthering things.

I dont know if it's the guy's fault for letting the vibe be that way.

For intance-online gaming & chats(texts):

Some women(online)seem to be content with just flirting,cyber sex or sexting,etc.with no intention on ever meeting up with the guy.

IDK,maybe it's just me noticing this trend over years with some girls.

And this mainly occurs with online sarges opposed to meeting a girl on cold approaches.

This' why I hate online-gaming;many women want to solely keep it "ONLINE".

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This is not limited to Online gaming.. this is also true in other areas. Some women are "teases". They will be flirty, ask you lots of questions and seem VERY interested in you... but when its time to get down to business they have some stupid excuse. I dealt with a lot of these women in college and it was very frustrating. Its one of the things that led me to PUA material in the first place.

I've learned that the best way to weed out these types of women is to force them to make decisions very soon after you game them. If they are not willing to take ACTION they are full of shit. Invite them to do things which require leg work like having her meet you somewhere. Or invite her to come along with you on your plan for the day.

Women who are interested will do the leg work. Women who are full of shit will not. I only deal with women who "give back" and do some work.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

Those insecure validation seeking types can be found anywhere.


So how do you get them to string along to your desire?


Keep them chasing you for the validation, be very aware when and why you're paying attention to her.

These girls are very easily modelled into behaving a certain way.

'you're such a little slut, I love it'


DON'T MAKE OUT WITH THEM UNLESS YOU'RE IN YOUR BEDROOM

Note: there has to be initial attraction otherwise she'll walk away.



I have no experience with meeting those on the internet however.

@PlayHerMan-Great insight;Im beginning to think you're a genius at this.

Definitely if the girl invests,and do the foot work,that's a great compliance test.

It frustrates the shit out of me when I run into these types.

@Vaj-Another jedi-mind genius Vaj(lol).

The most crucial part of your post Vaj is about not making out outside of the bedroom-basically a seduction location where you know you can lay her.

Vaj,that is key insight.

Why get the girl hot & bothered when yo cannot lay her then & now.

My prob' is,whenever I meet girls online,I'd fall into the text-game and eventually phone sex,when the girl isnt invested in the meet.

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Alot of men do the same thing.

Flirting is fun... am I the only one here to have caught onto that?

@Fin-Elaborate Fin.

I get the drift.

Flirting is fun;I love it.

But I expect to take it some where eventually with a girl Im sarging or have been chatting with.

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Flirting is like a kind of qausi sexual bonding.

It's fun to flirt with someone, becuase it allows you to expressive yourself and it can also engage a competitive side in a playful manner which is again, fun.

^Not only is this fun but it's also a nice boost to the ego ^
This is a great reason alone to learn how to shut up and let girls flirt/sarge you. Not only can they invest but they get to engage in PERSONAL EXPRESSION. Which is an activity we all need to engage in in order to feel appreicated.

It's fun to have someone flirt with us, becuase... well... it's flattering.

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Of course it can be frustrating when it's meaningless, but you have to take it in context.

Your mates GF may flirt with you by tickling you, but you both know nothing will happen as a result.

However if a girl you met in a bar an hour ago is flirting with you in the same way, and she is tickling you while the two of you lie on your bed, then the change in context is obvious.

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If your in a situation that isn't obviously, seriously sexual when flirting, then be brave and take the step to reframe and put yourselves in a context/place/frame of mind where you are then flirting towards an obvious goal.

@Fin-I get what you're saying.

Definitely agree on the taking a step back when not in a situation conducive to the lay;if thats the ultimate goal.

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