It just dawn to me that when a woman picks fun at you - she usually likes you. This woman on face book is just basically picking fun at me saying my dick is small, and my ex girlfriend said I was a horrible lay or something like that - I can't remember...So, it finally dawn to me she likes me!

She's an alpha female - so in a way she's shit testing me like crazy. She sees other girls commenting on my posts saying they love me and she comes in and tries to make me look bad...usually a offensive bitch shield but in the long run she's trying to see how confident I am.

I wrote to her on my post, "You're so cute, I love your wirtty comments you write to me! lol"

What do you guys think of this? I think I'm right - only a woman that finds you attractive enough and is attracted to you will shit test you.

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It's okay till she tells you to FUCK OFF and turns her back on you.

Not sure if she likes you, but for someone to pay that much attention to what you do, they have some kind of strong feelings. Either way, your playing it right.

If she likes you, she'll respond to your playful attitude with her own.

If she hates you, you're shining her on til she loses her cool first.

win/win

ha im trying to figure this out too. if you like a girl you tease her a bit, drop a few negs, stuff like that. maybe she is trying to do that and not very good at keeping it light

tell her to come around you house, so she can say it in person

then dont reply until she says something like "yes"

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Not necessarily. If a girl sees false confidence or that you are being non-reactive to her, from my experience, they will sometimes try to bring you down. She wants to be in control just as much as you do.

That being said, I have noticed that some women tend to make fun of guys and poke fun at them sometimes like them or find them attractive. The key word is sometimes. It depends. If the fun-making is lighthearted and playful, she probably has some initial attraction for you. If it's more serious and she is making fun of you to really hurt you, she probably doesn't. Don't be delusional - to an extent it's worth playing along with, but beyond that, you don't need to waste your time with a bitch who negatively affects your reality.

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She's bombing me and I'm over here laughing my balls off! here's the link http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/pau ... ed_comment

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here's the link

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/pau ... ed_comment

Her name is Trisha Born

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Wait, you have only just realised that the standard way of flirting is to tease and poke fun?

REALLY?... WOW!


Of course people poke fun at the person they like, it's a pretty standard way to get their attention. It's a rather lovely way of saying "Hey, come play with me "

Women are not evil masterminds looking to tear every man down to his knees.

If she smiles at you and goes, "I bet your penis is really small " you just turn and say "I hope your pussy doesn't smell as bad as your breath "

It's just fun, there is no motive here.

Fin, I did realize this because I never knew this before. I could never handle this type of flirting before either but now I can. It's the type of flirting I'm not use to - if you want to say.

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Dont worry too much, some girls are just spunky and like to tease, but usually they dont mean it to hurt you, they just enjoy the exchange of words. Example, I went to the library and left my one chick friend by herself for 20 mins, when I came back she asked me (In front of some other people mind you) "what took you so long, were you jerking off in there?" so I replied with "That's right, I even got it on tape just like you wanted"

Just go with it, its all in good fun.

I don't mean to be offensive in any way, but what I would like you to look at is how you categorise the flirting.

Your viewing it like "an offensive bitch shield"

This is not a war, she is not trying to remove your confidence or "beat you" when she teases you, if anything she is doing the opposite.

She is not attacking you, she is accepting you and trying to make you accept her!