I am just sick of being the way I am. I am fragile. I hide behind books of material and technique and then fall apart when I leave my room and go into the real world. When I don't think about game, I do okay, but not with girls. I forget all that I learned, I don't improve, I don't apply.

I need to actually learn this stuff through action. Through doing. Apply the techniques, the material that I have spent so long learning, into real life sets. At first I'm going to suck, but I am going to get better.

I am going to write my experiences as responses to this post. I need help; that's where you guys come in. I need feedback on where exactly I can improve, and I will try to apply it.

It's time for change.

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-Sharplin
My journal:
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The main thing you need is balls.

You have everything else ready to go. You just need the balls. Thats something you have to grow on your own. All we can do is give you advice... but you have to follow it.

I think the best thing to do in the beginning to give you the feel that "there are pleny of fish in the sea" is to make a commitment to approach 50 women in whatever time span you choose.

So your goal is to walk up to 50 hot girls and say "Hi" then try to start a conversation. NO THINKING. The second you see a hot girl walk over and say "Hi". This is your only goal.

Once you do this a few times most of your fear will fade. By the 50th girl you'll probably already be getting numbers and dates.

But you have to do it.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

That's what I need to work on. One thing that I feel has improved with my game is my AA has faded. I'm not as scared of approaching attractive women. It's still a rush, but I think it's more excitement now than anxiety.

You're right. I have to actually take the advice and apply it.

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-Sharplin
My journal:
sharplins-journal-vt84603.html?highlight=

I'm rooting for you 100%.