I came across this on a different thread and I want to talk about it, its something thats been bugging me in conversations. I also came across this statement "when guys says he doesnt understand what you're saying, it means you both aren't thinking the same way"

By the example above it would be good to learn and be able to connect to everyone you meet, you can also show your personality by doing so

Her: He doesnt like to go down

You: I dont know what his deal is, I enjoy going down on women (cocky)
You: Maybe he had a bad experience (assumptions, not really caring)
You: You should find a guy who enjoys going down on you (suggesting, controlling)
You: Thats allright youll find somebody who will go down on you sooner or later (caring listening)
You: I really dont understand guys who dont like this (understanding, connecting)

Do you understand?
Anything you say shows your personality, this is the beauty of conversation guys.
All those women who just wanted to be understood, now is the chance to show them you understand, now is the time to show you can connect with her!

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen