If you lose this one, no big deal. There are plenty of girls out there. However, if you continue with this chicken shit game for the rest of your life . . . well, the results are predictable.- Kasabi

I'm going to give credit to Kasabi for reminding me to write on this topic.

Their is very fine line between moving on, and having a oneitis. I think this part is very difficult for people in the situation to always understand.

Oneitis- Feeling like this girl is the only girl in the world who is for you. You act a certain way because you think that's what will make her happy. You are not being you.

Moving On- Understanding that being yourself around the girl is not enough. She wants things that you are unable to provide her.(money, fame...)

So ask yourself before you move on a couple of questions...

Did I honestly try?
Did she get a chance to see ME for who I am?
Am I being myself?

Now don't get me wrong, it always easier to just move on and get to the next chick who will see you another way blah blah blah.

But understand this, if you move on without solving that specific problem, it will recreate itself in the future. I PROMISE.

So what are you supposed to do. Sit their and try every single one of your problems at once? No.
Is their a way to solve every problem at once? YES...

Yes their is. By being HONEST. When you are honest with yourself.

You have nothing to lose. You are You. You will accept that you have faults. Rather then try to be someone who is perfect. You will accept that your are not the prettiest person on the planet, but man you know how to make people laugh when their with you. You will accept that you don't have game, and that you never needed game in the first place.



Peace

I HIGHLY recommend you read the thread about Honesty vs Full-Disclosure...its more in-depth about honesty.

could you provide a link to that thread please. I am unable to find it.

I googled too, and found this

honesty-vs-full-disclosure-vt76997.html

Not sure which one samex meant.

honesty-vs-full-disclosure-vt76997.html

here is the link that follows this thread.