I have kinda reached this phase in my game where I am getting consistently successful. So now that I have multiple females in my life, I am getting overwhelmed at times with how to handle all of them. Some of them find out about the other girls and think I'm some kind of whore. But I can't think of a good speech or explanation letting them know that I'm just a man with a healthy life full of females.

The other night I was stuck in the most awkward situation in a bar where two of the girls I talk to were just standing there and looking at me and I pretty much had to decide which one I had to go home with that night...it was probably the most awkward 3 min of my life.

Does anybody have experience with these kinds of things and how you can handle them? Also, does anybody have something smart/interesting to tell a girl when she knows you hook up with many females.

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"...so it goes"

Does any of the girls matter very much to you, then choose her. If not, then just tell them. Shameless honesty.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

No, not really. But I'm in college, if im THAT honest, they'll all just think I'm just a complete asshole telling them that they don't matter to me besides their sex. I don't want a bad reputation

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"...so it goes"

Then tell them how much you love sex.

I know that I am a bit extreme in this but...

There is nothing wrong with a person who likes sex, man or woman. People can do whatever makes them happy as long as they arent hurting anyone.

People will always judge and there is no way of getting anything you want without somebody judging you, they often judge because you got what they want.

Plus, if you show that you think that their judgment is right... They will judge you more. If you stand for what you like, they will be like, oh yeah, thats the promiscuous guy, he he, what are you gonna do about it, hes still a cool guy.

But it all depends on what your limits are.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I've found some girls are more tolerant than others.

Last year I had at least three fuckbuddys at one point and neither of them cared about the other girls. Sometimes we'd go out to do something but most of the time it was sex, not cold sex though, just sex.

It's all about finding a balance. Honesty is the best policy.

Ust be honest, your a guy who wants to have fun, but doesn't want the drawbacks of a relationship, that's all you need to say really. Don't be too complicated with it, just say that and you should pretty much be good. If they like that GREAT if not, there will be someone else who will, then you just have a friend, not a fb. And pick the one that feels right, wether it's the hotter one, or the one you just like most, whatever you feel is right.