I'm listening to 60's Sexual escalation seminar & He seems to advise against humor because it breaks tension.. n negging cuz it breaks rapport...

but that really doesnt make sense to me?

is he just talking about people who USE it specifically to break the tension?

First, 60 is just one guy with his own theory about what works in his experience for him. If you're a naturally funny guy and that works for you, don't drop it just because one PUA says so.

I think that humour is great to use at the start of an interaction to get them interested and attracted to you. Similarly, a neg used early on in the interaction will help generate more attraction and interest. Once you're actually sexually escalating though, you should drop it. Would you make a joke right before going in for a k-close? Would you neg her right before slipping your dick in her? Humour clearly does kill sexual tension, but that doesn't mean it's not useful for your opening game.

I think 60 is useful because he draws attention to the fact that a lot of guys overgame and spend way too much time in attraction without just fucking moving things along. However, you still need to actually do some attraction first otherwise you will not get their attention and interest in order to start sexually escalating in the first place.

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Humor, makes people feel comfortable, it also generates positive feelings and that's why it is often an attractive trait.

60 Is going a different way with his seduction.

You don't break tension, at all. If she breaks it, fine. But you should keep creating sexual tension and then either escalating or letting her react.

Walking the line between getting her heart racing and having her back down with nerves.

You can use humour with 60s method. But the focus of your seduction should be on sexual tension.
The whole idea surrounding 60 is that the sexual tension creates it's own magnatism, not that people spend to much time trying to build attraction.

Though I certainly will agree that if your not going to use 60 as a basis for your style then the main thing to take away is "Do less, achieve more"

I'm reading his stuff in depht too right now. Obviously, the situation which he describes when using his stuff is in a bar or a club. As far as I read, not very strict day game material. So when having a sober day game at the mall, street, or having a date, you can still, and maybe should, use some of 60's method. But don't forget to talk and have a good time. You should not give away everything and be mysterious, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't talk about good topics like travelling, your important vallues, sex, etc. You can still built tension while talking, like when you talk, that you come a bit closer, look deeper in her eyes or at her lips and talk more slowly.
Humor is also great, because if she is with you, she will have a good time, and thus, she want to chase that good feeling she had when she was with you.

60's also puts the emphasize on getting a lay with the random hot babe standing at the bar, not about building emotional connections needed for friendship, trust and relationships.

But as someone said: "there's time for emotional connection ... after sex"

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60's method is very much drop and go with girls.

He says he gives them 2 chances to let him open them and bam he's gone, even if they come back to him.

so although he says you should be social his method is how to be seductive so you can be funny until you 'hook' but tone it down from there into his groove.

but strictly speaking his method is basically just physical escalation, he creates his hook point by shaking hands until she gets the idea, if not he goes.

i ramble on a bit but thought id explain what i make of his work! now onto your question.

i had this problem id always be funny, as i naturally am a bit of a joker even if no one else finds it funny. ive noticed humour is a great way to get a girls attention/hook point because it shows youve got the balls to put your personality out on the line with some new girl and its good emotions.

ive found its good to be reasonably funny but tone down your humour for pick up as either you can come across as a friend or theyll make a judgement that youre REALLY funny and its an expectation of you throughout the rest of the interaction. i mean imagine if a girl was very flirty with you at the beginning but then stopped later.

obviously you dont want to be funny around sexual tension.

ive found being funny to her friends or your friends and people around the club is perfect as it shows you social side and what guy youre like to people in general.

This is just my take on it all, you might find you can be the joker then just BAM make out. just dont be a clown or too cocky

clown comes across as attention seeking or you dont think your good enough so you put on a show and being too cocky is like "hey i totally dont know im an alpha, so ill just make sure everyone know i am by saying these totally awesome lines."

anyway this is just my experience, if anyone wants to blow my mind with how im wrong id be happy to know. i hope this helped a little.

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