So Ive told a few people about me joining the pick up community, Ive always been so secretive about my life and never tell people what Im doing so here I am now, opening up to every guy on here and letting out all my emotions at the same time.
First things first.. The name is Dilaks(Deluxe) Ive been in the community long enough to know the basic of pick up, a book called "The Game" lead me to my personal growth which has inspired me to become a pick up artist so I could fuk every women I see. After reading some posts about confidence and ego I really got confused as to what they both were, thanks to "Chief" for clearing that up for me.
Tonight as I just picked up my Mexican HB8 on FB and talked to a good friend of mine on MSN, she helped me out to seeing the light more. When I tell people Im in the community they say "oh man you dont need pick up lines to pick up women...." "blah blah blah blah" Now Ive realised more about pick up, this forum is to make men out of boyz, I remembered reading 'The Game' and Neil wrote "Champions aren't born they are made" which is why I think men are made not born.
Before I couldn't tell weather a girl is interested or not, I didn't know body language, I couldn't see or know what the signs were.... I remembered having a crush on a good friend of mine she was HB6.5 she was really awsum! everytime Im around her I could be myself, I never had the courage or the confidence to go up to her and say "I LIKE YOU!" 3 words was the only words I couldn't say to her anything else Im ok with. I thought I was playing her but I was the one who got played in the end, after having enough courage and confidence in saying the 3 words Ive always wanted to say she LJBFed me
. After this I was broken, this was a cycle which I realized through experience from having alot of LJBFs.
Now I can see all this clearly I can see the signs weather a girl is interested or not, I wont have to waste my time or her time for that matter, I can move on with my life not having her inside my head and thinking weather she likes me or not, Ive also noticed this forum is not just about pick up, this forum is about turning boys into men. I never knew what good grooming was, I thought only girls pluck their eye brows, and shave their pubes. I though I needed to learn routines to attract women (which is fun to do but its not necessary), I just picked up a HB8 on FB without routines or anything it was just a conversation, something I didnt know until now if it wasn't for "KASABI"
here-vp409705.html#409705 form this thread I got the best advice about conversations and how to have conversation.
My perspective on pick up has definitely changed from just picking up women and fuking them, now Im doing it to better myself. I still have areas where I need to improve on and will need everyones help for that matter. Hope to meet everyone on the forum, Ive met a few good guys in the chat room who not only talk about pick up but cyber sex and shit.... HAHA you know who you are
Hope to see you in the chat room!
DILAKS (NZ REP!)
CHAT