What the heck is up with this title? Aren't we supposed to be avoiding jerking off? Well, as a male of the human species, I know for a fact that sometimes you just have to rub one out. Orgasms feel great and are healthy for the prostate among other things. I know for a fact that when I have a rough day and need relief, a good jerk is relaxing. You're probably thinking, 'that's disgusting and what does masturbation have anything to do with being a PUA?'

Multiple orgasms, ejaculation control, and a bigger money shot are all within your reach. Are you afraid of coming too fast? YES! It's a common male fear of being known as a "one pump chump" or "Mr. Quickie". What to do... Learn Kegels. Just type "Kegels" into your favorite search engine. Basically, you squeeze your PC muscles in your pelvic region to stop the urine flow. Those are the same muscles. That's the pubococcygeal muscles to those of you dense enough to think I'm talking about your personal computer.

The start/stop method is a great way to control ejaculation when you are jack-hammering away using your hand or your favorite vagina at the time. You simply stop thrusting when you feel like you are about to cum. Sometimes you may get a small shudder of orgasm this way, but you will not expel your fluids from your cock. This is great training for both ejaculation control and the fabled male multiple orgasms.

The last method is the squeeze method. It is pretty self-explanatory, you squeeze the base of your cock as you are about to cum and you stop from painting the ceiling with your nutty juices. This also has a similar dual advantage that the start/stop technique does.

You should set aside time to train yourself to f#ck. Masturbation does not have to be a waste of time as long as you are training your penis to last longer and stronger. For more on this, check out tantric sex and maybe some Kama Sutra. They are an interesting look on sexuality. You might get some really orgasmic ideas.

Best of luck,
Chicoman

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Interesting tips lol.

You're right on the "Squeezing" though.

Also slow down your breathing when in the REAL act. Breathing is key.

Also, when your going to blow, push your tongue to the roof of your mouth. It helps

Anyone got tips on how to cum faster that doesn't involve not masturbating/having sex for a week?

Weird request Kensei, er but your mind is the most powerful sexual tool you have to just forcibly excite yourself with whatever you find the most arousing and mentally imagine being at the point of climax and you will get the farking fast, it's probably (and I say this hypothetically) why 'virgins and freshers' squirt so fast they are so mentally excited, I personally had the reverse the first time I did it I was so drunk I couldnt cum, went thru about 5 condoms, got tired of slipping on new ones and went bareback (I know I know) for a bit, ended up with her having to leave in the morning and Id still not cum and I ended up with the rawest and most painful cock ive ever had in my entire life!

As for Kegels I highly highly recommend them, I can tell it's working and have been messing about with this multiple orgasm tantric thing without ejaculating and I managed to pull it off once a while back were I was able to hold my self just at the point of no return for like and extended buzz, then dropped off brought myself back up again as soon as it subsided two more times on extended plateau , so far thats been better than any sex Ive had, I was litterally lying in bed laughing for about 10 minutes in amazement afterwards. Ive moved onto going for the full orgasm and trying to hold it back purely with the PC muscle but I jsut cant do it yet, this is obviously a long arse process, since you cant jsut go 'oops' lets try that again.

I agree with new2game too Breathing and heart rate are important you should control them and remain relaxed and calm. If you do feel yourself not able to hold there is a style of trying to stop it which tbh Ive only tried a little bit, it's called 'tensing the root' or some such bollocks (sorry I dont bother much with the naming sides of it just the practicality of it!) were as you are about to shoot your load, past the point of no return, or on the vinegar stroke or whatever you call it you basically tense all your abdominal and lower muscles - buttocks, anus, pc muscle, stomach and basically just tense everything until the orgasm sibsides, it either works and it subsides and you keep going or you still cum, but because you fight it you have a longer and more enjoyable orgasm so it's win win haha!