Any of you guys met girl A - f-closed her,
then met her friends and f-closed 2 or 3 of them?`
(and Im not talking about you gaming them.. Im talking about them offering themselves to you!)

Just wanna know if this is common.

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This is driving me nuts! I win over the obstacles, by being nice, cocky funny, whatever. Then I get IOIs from them. They tell the target that they think I'm cute or hot or whatever, then the target tries to set us up. wtf! I've tired easing off on the 'nice' or 'friendly' attitude towards the obstacles, but I still get the same results

Any advice?

K-close the target and ignore the others.

If you can't move for the KC, I'd be direct with your target. If she says something to you to set up, make it about her instead. At that point you probably need to be pretty direct. Still a fucked situation though, and I hate it myself.

If your target comes up to you and says " my friend likes you alot ( or whatever)
your response should be a nice no always because if its a mean one it fxcks up your chances with your target ( dont balls out of it either by saying let me think about it)

Target : My friend **** likes you
you : Shes cute ...... but cutes not what im looking for

bam


but i dont think that was the initial question was asking for ^ . Op I have never had that happen to me instantly ( I have had it happen to me like a year after i f-closed one of her mates)

If your not really bothered about the consequences with target A i would just do it .

Energy_, out of curiosity, when you f close a girl, do you normally tell about 2-3 of your friends. Probably, and what do you do you tell them about the f close, that she had a nice or tits, the guys fist bomb and that's the end of the story.

Well, you ever watched The View, that's what girl's basically do after a F close. She will tell all her girlfriends about you...IN FULL DETAIL. Pubic hair, or no pubic hair, size, how fit you are, how aggressive/passive you are, you get the point.

The good news for you is that you must have done a good job, since her friends wanted to F close you so bad so no worries take it as a compliment. It will happen again im sure.

yeah i noticed this, not so much in clubs but in college and lessons or wherever theres another agenda other than meeting people.

i think its because;

you try and mack the target
you dont show direct interest
shes the shit, everyone wants her on their dick so if a guy doesnt show direct interest. she thinks "whatever, this is just an interesting guy, funny but im not bothered about his dick"
then her friends or people around her, see this charming funny guy, whos not giving them attention/validation
kinda get jealous and realise that you can easily get along and make the hottest girl laugh.
so theyre into you because all of your personality is telegraphed but not at them
and theyll let the hot girl know because, they know she aint gonna accept your dick

or at the very least, they see no direct interest shown and see you up for grabs

i get the same problem, in a club i feel i can be more direct but in lessons or around college it feels abit weird and im on show too much.

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I think the reason that it happend was the fact that the first girl "approved" me.
It might sound weird.. but girls arnt always that picky whit who their friends been with

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered