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PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 9:07 pm 
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These are my personal rules of the game for safety. They help you stay safe emotionally (avoiding oneitis etc) and physical, financial safety etc. They've worked wonders for me so hopefully they will help you too. They are particularly important if you get laid lots.:

RULES OF THE GAME

1. If she doesn't text back after your text, wait until she does. After a few days, if she still doesn't, text her once and only once more.
2. Always keep your clothes and take them back if you stay around hers.
3. Never pay for her unless she returns the favour.
4. Always assume she is seeing two or three other guys.
5. The game never ends.
6. Never trust her.
7. Always keep your valuables safe.
8. Never let her leave your bed whilst you are asleep.
9. Always keep your valuables in the same place, and if you ever take them out, put them straight back in (keys, ID, money etc).
10. Avoid waiting for girls. You'll never get from A to B without being late otherwise.
11. Always use a Jonny.
12. There's not much point in chasing sets, and never chase a bad set.
13. Always assume she has an STI.
14. Never kiss and tell.
15. Only fuck one girl per social circle.
16. If in doubt, always be nice.
17. Don't LTR girls with baggage.
18. Stick to the rules.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 10:41 pm 
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Good stuff, just a little q about #15. Would you consider a school, bar, or neighborhood as one social circle, or do you just mean group of friends?


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I think I know the answer, but I want to hear why rule 15 is a rule from your POV.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 15, 2010 1:21 am 
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Good guidance, but dude, how do you pull of #8? Tie a bell to her foot?


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Fall asleep on top?


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 15, 2010 9:48 am 
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RULES OF THE GAME

1. If she doesn't text back after your text, wait until she does. After a few days, if she still doesn't, text her once and only once more
Why do you text and not call? I hate when guys are texting me and not calling me. I want to hear their voice!
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2. Always keep your clothes and take them back if you stay around hers.
I agree. If I bring a new guy around I don't want any other man's items ruin my new date :P And anyway, why would I want something around my place to remind me of him all the time? :P
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3. Never pay for her unless she returns the favour.
True. I agree. but if we do return the favour make sure that you show that you appreciate it. Every time I have returned the favour back to a guy I always regret it for this reason. It seems that it is working against me so I don't return back the favour. Why be nice if being bad brings you better results?
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4. Always assume she is seeing two or three other guys.
I would do that only if I was not that much attracted to anyone. As soon as I would feel real attraction to someone I date only him unless he is unavailable and I feel I have to date other men to move on.
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5. The game never ends.
If you are talking about how to maintain a relationship I agree that the secret is to try to keep it as it was brand new.
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6. Never trust her.
Trust her but trust more your intuition. And keep in mind if something can go wrong then it will!
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7. Always keep your valuables safe.
I agree but dont become obsessed. Make sure that she knows what privacy is before you feel that relax.
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8. Never let her leave your bed whilst you are asleep.
If someone does this to me I will get really angry with him. I want to feel free at all times. Sometimes I like to wake up earlier and make coffee and spend some time alone before he wakes up. I need my me time. I don't want to steal anything from him so if he shows signs that he is not trusting me I don't want him around at all! Who knows what he might do in the future?
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9. Always keep your valuables in the same place, and if you ever take them out, put them straight back in (keys, ID, money etc).
Also always keep your clothes at the same place. Even if they are in a pile. It is easier to tidy up this way! Thank you.
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10. Avoid waiting for girls. You'll never get from A to B without being late otherwise.
If you tell us your plans in advance and you take in consideration that we need time to get ready and pretty then yes! you are right.
Otherwise no. It is not nice to go out with wet hair! and we cannot carry the hair dryer in the car!
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11. Always use a Jonny.
Yes please. Getting pregnant is not the best thing to happen to you if not planned. Note: make sure you always carry 2-3 with you. Most guys forget about it.
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12. There's not much point in chasing sets, and never chase a bad set.
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13. Always assume she has an STI.
We always assume you have an STI too. So all good :wink:
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14. Never kiss and tell.
I agree :)
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15. Only fuck one girl per social circle.
And stay away from our female friends.
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16. If in doubt, always be nice.
I like this. :)
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17. Don't LTR girls with baggage.
You are not perfect either. This whole list of rules screams from far away that you have yourself baggage. So don't be that judgemental and realise that in life you have to learn how to deal with things rather than avoid them.
However I have to agree that some girls are crazy.
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18. Stick to the rules.
Stay open minded and keep your eyes open. :wink:


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 15, 2010 11:06 am 
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Most of these rules are designed with the idea that you might be with lots of girls at different times, and you might be drunk or high lots so they help you stay in control. Also I'm in a big city which is another factor.

For #15, I left it deliberately vague because clearly it varies depending on the situation, context and people. But to give you an example, last Monday night I talk a girl clubbing and I wanted to stay exclusive to her that night, but another girl who I was also seeing (same residential area) saw us and was not happy (in short). So you'll have to gauge it depending on your situation. Some groups of girls quite openly sleep with the same guys anyway, so that's obviously OK. If you follow #14, it should also protect you to some extent from this kind of backlash. Furthermore, almost every girl I sleep with I always manage expectations beforehand such that she knows I'm discrete and I would expect the same in return from her. The only case where I don't do this is where I want the girl to spread the word of me to her friends etc.

For #8, what I used to do is sellotape some bells such that they intersect between the top of the door and the wall. So when she opens the door, the bells will fall and it will make a noise (or hit her on the head). I have a friend who has chime things and hides it with a scarf but positions it similarly so when the door opens the chimes go off. Sounds paranoid, but if you've ever had a girl sneak off at 6 in the morning with your valuables, then you'll know what I mean.

a_girl_: At no point in #1 did I say I don't call. In fact I prefer calling myself and do often. But texting will always play an important part of the game for the vast majority of people at this point in time. Although I prefer calling, texting has many benefits (particularly if she is chasing you), though that's another conversation for another time.

Regarding #2, yeah, I have no FUCKING underwear left, I've been doubling up on days for the same pair of boxers for a week now. Last week I got some girl to do my washing but I swear she nicked my boxers. And I gave another girl my boxers to keep in her handbag on a night out and give back to me at the end (it was a hot tub party), guess what, she fucking 'lost' it. Bitch.

#3: This rule is not actually so important. Sometimes I buy girls things randomly because I love the fun and compassion. But the principle in terms of the frame is vitally important, which is why I put it down as a rule. Besides, I often go to the bar and buy 5+ straight shots in a round, and girls tend to nick them as if they have some god-given right to drink my drinks. You gotta protect that shit if you're poor like me.

#4: You might do that, but other girls may not. Too many guys think (and I still fall into this trap) that the girl is only seeing you, and then get hurt or jealous when they realise otherwise. I also never cease to be astonished by the amount of experience, sexual toys and contraception many girls have.

#8: You can still have that freedom, but I want to be awake and know what you are doing.

#10: Girls take fucking ages to get anything done.

#11: Recently I've met a few girls who like it unprotected, or are on the pill (as if that means you don't need a Jonny). It's surprising. No wonder STIs are fricken rampant.

#17: There are enough girls to bang to be able to pick and choose, i.e. to avoid the girls who will long you out. One of my friends recently got with this one girl and took her back from the bar. Next day she became insanely clingy and dropped all this shit on him about how her parents beat her and stuff. I mean fair enough, I would feel really sorry for that girl and help her as much as I can. But I'm not in the position to do that, I don't have the time, and it'd be better if I never met her in the first place.

#18: I agree. But with each of these rules, if you break one of them, there will probably be a price to pay at some point.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 15, 2010 1:38 pm 
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Thanks to you Rafiel, I went and got my boxers back from a girl who slept in my bed the other night.

Cheers man!


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Guidelines.

You might want to explain "6. Never trust her.". People (AFC's) might misunderstand what you mean and mess up quite a bit of their inner and thus outer game.

-ZeroValley


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Don't want to burst anyones bubble, but the World doesn't work like that, yes, it may be more comfortable to have a solid set of 100% clear rules that you can stand by in this crazy game called "life".

But ultimatly, the only good rule governing general advice is that you should never trust rules that begin with the words "always" or "never".


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 16, 2010 9:00 pm 
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Thanks to you Rafiel, I went and got my boxers back from a girl who slept in my bed the other night.

Cheers man!
WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!

It's not taking back Sundays, it's TAKING BACK MY BLOODY BOXERS, BITCH!!

Today is the nth day of wearing two boxers in a row.

Fuck, I went to a baywatch party on Wed, obviously alcohol was spilled all over me all throughout the night, then I used those same shorts as underwear two days in a row!!

WHOOO!


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just change your second rule to "go commando" lol


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There are no rules only guidelines.


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Agree with Chief and Jurupa. If I was accurate, I should have cut out just a few of these - the rest, really are RULES, not guidelines. But in general this should have been titled guidelines. Obviously ever situation is different blablababalanaabalaaa


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