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So I have this friend, he's kind of annoying.

I often time open sets, while they are receptive, he jumps in and starts drawing all attention towards him, fine I'd say. However this guy has a relationship and has no business in my sets. If he wants to compete with me he should break off his relationship, I told him that. He thought I was kidding.

He's a huge distraction, since everytime he takes over the set I either act like a monkey and look ridiculous, I act chill and he still gets the attention or I just leave the set and go for another. But the problem seems to keep repeating itself.

When It'd be a stranger I'd just be like "wtf weirdo?" or befriend him if he wasn't too weird and the girls would pick up on it.


How do I deal with this?

Don't be friends with him...?

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Ask him if he is their to help you get laid? If he is, then let him know that his behavior is ineffective at this goal, and the he should proceed in a different fashion.

If he gets its, good.
If not, just neg the shit out of him when he comes into the set.

Then he will get the message

I had a problem exactly the same as you do right now a few months back so this is what I did to fix it. The easy thing and not go to bars and social settings with him which is what I do.

But when you're in the middle of a set and he comes in and starts grabbing all the attention all you really need to do is ignore him. If I'm in the middle of a conversation with a girl I'll keep talking and barely acknowledge that he's even there.

When there was no way to ignore him because he's that much of an attention whore I would usually laugh AT him when he did stupid shit. If your 'friend' is anything like the guy I dealt with then he's probably not that funny. After I out AMOGd him I isolated the girl.

Hope this helps.

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*javs gaming sets*

*rude fucker jumps in and trys to grab attention*

Jav: Yo, where your GF at man?

Right there, you have him. Doesn't matter what he replies. For example:

him: Shes at home

Jav:.... so you leave your GF at home to go hit on chicks?

All the girls will now look down on him. lets say he responds the other way...

Him: I dont have a GF

Jav: Dont have one?!? *Tunrs to the girls* Hey girls, hes cute, right? Of cours ehe is, he should totally have a GF *playfull push girl towards him* haha, you can be his GF (this is done PLAYFULLY.)

That will also make the girls look down on him.

99% of the time a guy will respond one of them ways. I learned this trick from BadBoy and it works great.

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If he's consistently able to grab and hold a large set's attention, he's worth having as a wingman. Just tell him that he's doing a great job winging, but he's actually doing TOO well and grabbing the attention of everyone, including your target. Set up some kind of signal between you so he knows to hook everyone APART from your target, and then whilst he's being the monkey with them, you can isolate her and know that you've got as long as you need to comfort build and escalate. This way you do not have to get into an AMOG battle with him or anything lame like that.

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Personally I almost never had problems with other guys "taking over" or AMOGing or anything like that because I always establish a connection between me and the girl I'm interested in very quickly and very soon, and/or I just isolate a lot with in-venue bounces.

For example, I might be talking to a couple girls but I would have established more rapport and sexual tension with the girl I'm interested in with various methods of subcommunication and kino - I may not have verbalized my interest but it's still pretty obvious. If some guy comes in and starts drawing attention to himself, it doesn't affect the established connection I have with her at all unless he steals BT. If that does begin to happen, I can easily find a way to pull her away to isolate while I let that guy enjoy his interaction with the other girl(s) from the set.

No dancing monkey can ever get in the way of my seduction but he CAN steal BT if he starts playing on my level in terms of seductiveness (sexual tension building). Barely anyone has the balls to escalate sexual tension properly, though, so it's not like I'm running into a lot of competition.

To be honest I don't see why anyone would be having this problem unless they used a method that involved trying to not telegraph interest like that MM crap

If your cockblocking friend is jumping into your sets immediately right after you open, though, I can see how that might look like a different issue. If that's the case then I would recommend opening individual people (even if they are part of a set with other people in it) rather than entire sets at once. Let's see him try to fuck that one up. Hyperfocus on one girl and he'll have no room to squeeze in between you and your game.