Ok so here I am at Starbucks located at the local Barnes&Noble. I just approach the counter order a coffee and during this whole time there is a girl a 7-8 being trained behind the counter. I order from the guy and as I am ordering she looks up at me and holds a longer than usual stare. I continue to look at her until she looks away. At this point I can tell she is getting a little nervous after the look. As she is making my coffee she is fidgeting a little and overall I can sense she is uneasy, maybe the sexual tension 60 Years in making was talking about.

I get my coffee, sit down a little ways away and a minute after being at the table I look back at the counter and I catch her starring at me, she quickly looks away, a few minutes later she goes in front of the counter to do a count of the fruit drinks and as she is walking aback she again is caught looking back at me and when I catch her she looks away quickly...

So what would you do?

I am asking people that have acted on these signs, please let me know from experience and not just what you would do in theory. I want to know what type of approach would work in this situation.

I was thinking of going up to her say Hi, introduce myself and tell her that I caught her looking at me, tell her I think she is into me and that she wants to give me her number.

Of course before I can do this I start to rationalize why I shouldn't, things like:

Yeah this script sounds great but what about the follow through.

and, yeah she will give me her number only to tell herself later not to answer the phone because of the cheese pickup etc.

How do I pull this off, although slightly nervous, how do I hide that and show the perceived confidence.

I cannot tell you how many of these situations I run into on daily basis and the only thing I can do at the end of the day is to go home and think of all could haves and should haves.

Don't think too much about it .. wait for a quiet moment, go up.. ask her for a pen bring a napkin.. in front of her write your number.. say nothing.. leave

go up to her "my coffee is cold" -> "nah just kidding, i wanted to talk to you"


do it or die trying disregarding how anxious you are at that moment, that's something you'll have to fight through, the earlier, the better